He tried to recruit TJ out of high school, TJ ended up going to another college and didn't hook up with them until near the end of college. Thats the same way Chad joined. Alpha male got a ton of credit when TJ won the title, he was still training out of that gym when he won it.
Faber was told that TJ was being recruited by Elevation by TJ and heard a rumor he had agreed to train there and asked TJ about it. TJ said he wasn't sure, then the next week said he was gone. <- this is pretty much both men's account of what happened.
Uriah was just mad that his friend/the only champion the gym had left to a rival (not Bang, Bowling who Faber had accused of recruit TAM prospects with money for years). Dude just felt like his buddy chose money over loyalty. Dillashaw chose to do what's best for his career. Shits not even a big deal. If it was such a cardinal sin, Dillashaw wouldn't be on good terms with pretty much all of the other alpha male guys not named Cody or Uriah. Dude's salty because his buddy chose another guy over him - is normal, shit like that happens all the time. Both men probably hold some fault in it.