I got “in trouble” for asking how old somebody was..

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Amerikuracana said:
So I quit a job today because somebody tried to accuse me of borderline harassment for asking how old a girl was.

she looked young, like early 20s, so I asked “how old are you, around 20-21?” She said “Nope, I’m 17.” I said “Oh wow, I have a daughter that’s 17, you might know her. Her name is.....”

“Wow you’re .......... dad? Yes I know her.”

“That’s cool. I love my daughter. Don’t tell me anything I don’t want to know. *haha*”


So that was the exchange. I don’t lie on Sherdog. Young girl, who I think might have had a thing for me, idk, tells dad I hit on her by asking her how old she was. Dad says it “might be harassment” and I’m called into meeting. I look everybody square in the face and say exactly what happened, and they want to keep asking stupid questions like “what would you have done if she said she was 21?”

I just said what happened, and then said I’ll go someplace else because I can’t deal with being accused of something for no good reason.

I’ve been accused of false things way, way too many times in my life. Had a bi polar call the cops to protect herself from flipping out around my kids.. Had a cleaning lady accuse me of harassment because I told her she needed to wipe off a mat because staph was going around.. And then really some more.

it’s really hard being a normal person trying to act normal and friendly with people these days. If the girl ends up liking you, you have to put out or face doom. I think white guys are getting this far, far worse right now, for the record.

I would not have banged the guys daughter, because I don’t do things like that to guys I know. If she’s 18 and I don’t know you, I won’t feel bad, but I don’t want guys I know doing things like that to me. I wasn’t trying to bang this girl or harass her. She gave ME eyes, and I didn’t respond. Guilty.
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ok, so what is the age of consent in your state?
 
Amerikuracana said:
So I quit a job today because somebody tried to accuse me of borderline harassment for asking how old a girl was.

she looked young, like early 20s, so I asked “how old are you, around 20-21?” She said “Nope, I’m 17.” I said “Oh wow, I have a daughter that’s 17, you might know her. Her name is.....”

“Wow you’re .......... dad? Yes I know her.”

“That’s cool. I love my daughter. Don’t tell me anything I don’t want to know. *haha*”


So that was the exchange. I don’t lie on Sherdog. Young girl, who I think might have had a thing for me, idk, tells dad I hit on her by asking her how old she was. Dad says it “might be harassment” and I’m called into meeting. I look everybody square in the face and say exactly what happened, and they want to keep asking stupid questions like “what would you have done if she said she was 21?”

I just said what happened, and then said I’ll go someplace else because I can’t deal with being accused of something for no good reason.

I’ve been accused of false things way, way too many times in my life. Had a bi polar call the cops to protect herself from flipping out around my kids.. Had a cleaning lady accuse me of harassment because I told her she needed to wipe off a mat because staph was going around.. And then really some more.

it’s really hard being a normal person trying to act normal and friendly with people these days. If the girl ends up liking you, you have to put out or face doom. I think white guys are getting this far, far worse right now, for the record.

I would not have banged the guys daughter, because I don’t do things like that to guys I know. If she’s 18 and I don’t know you, I won’t feel bad, but I don’t want guys I know doing things like that to me. I wasn’t trying to bang this girl or harass her. She gave ME eyes, and I didn’t respond. Guilty.
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Yeah, I think she framed things in a certain way to her Dad because for one thing, she probably had a thing for you and wanted to believe that you were hitting on her. And for another thing, it was probably just easier to tell it to her Dad that way, because he'd probably rather believe, on some level, that she's not out there hitting on older guys.
 
Kforcer said:
Yeah, I think she framed things in a certain way to her Dad because for one thing, she probably had a thing for you and wanted to believe that you were hitting on her. And for another thing, it was probably just easier to tell it to her Dad that way, because he'd probably rather believe, on some level, that she's not out there hitting on older guys.
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My daughter knows her. Her boyfriend is an ugly 25 year old black guy lmao. She literally just told me this 3 days ago when I complained about the weirdo druggie dad with money mentioning this to somebody I know. I’m literally going to confront him if I ever hear it again, because literally nothing happened. I was being normal and friendly.
 
Amerikuracana said:
So I quit a job today because somebody tried to accuse me of borderline harassment for asking how old a girl was.

she looked young, like early 20s, so I asked “how old are you, around 20-21?” She said “Nope, I’m 17.” I said “Oh wow, I have a daughter that’s 17, you might know her. Her name is.....”

“Wow you’re .......... dad? Yes I know her.”

“That’s cool. I love my daughter. Don’t tell me anything I don’t want to know. *haha*”


So that was the exchange. I don’t lie on Sherdog. Young girl, who I think might have had a thing for me, idk, tells dad I hit on her by asking her how old she was. Dad says it “might be harassment” and I’m called into meeting. I look everybody square in the face and say exactly what happened, and they want to keep asking stupid questions like “what would you have done if she said she was 21?”

I just said what happened, and then said I’ll go someplace else because I can’t deal with being accused of something for no good reason.

I’ve been accused of false things way, way too many times in my life. Had a bi polar call the cops to protect herself from flipping out around my kids.. Had a cleaning lady accuse me of harassment because I told her she needed to wipe off a mat because staph was going around.. And then really some more.

it’s really hard being a normal person trying to act normal and friendly with people these days. If the girl ends up liking you, you have to put out or face doom. I think white guys are getting this far, far worse right now, for the record.

I would not have banged the guys daughter, because I don’t do things like that to guys I know. If she’s 18 and I don’t know you, I won’t feel bad, but I don’t want guys I know doing things like that to me. I wasn’t trying to bang this girl or harass her. She gave ME eyes, and I didn’t respond. Guilty.
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That's not harassment lol. You should have hired a lawyer because falsely accusing someone of sexual harassment is a big illegal no no, especially coming from your employers.
 
thehighking said:
That's not harassment lol. You should have hired a lawyer because falsely accusing someone of sexual harassment is a big illegal no no, especially coming from your employers.
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He’s an overprotective dad and she’s a 17 year old with a 25 year old black boyfriend. It’s a mess and I walked out laughing without being told to leave. It’s fine. It’s better.
 
Amerikuracana said:
He’s an overprotective dad and she’s a 17 year old with a 25 year old black boyfriend. It’s a mess and I walked out laughing without being told to leave. It’s fine. It’s better.
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Oh ok well that's a satisfying ending too lol.
 
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