I got “in trouble” for asking how old somebody was..

Only two pieces of advice come to mind, avoid casual conversations outside of your age group, and be less assumptive about other people's behaviour/thought patterns. Sometimes our instincts just throw us off, especially if we've learned them in a different era, different circumstances.

The new generations are just a different breed. The sort of "openness" to casual conversation, that you've probably become accustomed to, doesn't really exist anymore. You have to be really careful about correctly gauging the other person's position, to find out if they're possibly insane or not, a person who is barely "coping" and trying to put on a face.

A lot of people are pilled up and mentally ill, that's just a matter of fact. You have to find out what sort of stuff they're taking before even thinking about opening up. Once you know the extent of their "medical history", it gets easier to navigate through a conversation with them. Or just ignore them altogether.

Asking somebody how old they are is basically rape in some Western countries, depending on what sort of a "vibe" you give, and how you look like. You're probably lucky that you're an American, which is a bit less "gynocentric" when it comes to legislation, compared to, for example, Sweden.
 
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I'm 5'8 and barely 140lbs. I think I could be a model for small people there I think.

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You can get away with lots depending on your looks and personality, TS needs to hit the gym and get some surgery, maybe some personality coaching, if he wants to live out that under age fantasy..........
 
So.. it has happened to you what.. once?
And it's not like you felt giulty and quit the job.

Yeah once. The thing is I told a few of my co-workers I liked her and then she started looking at me and smiling at me, so I would do the same. I wanted to KO her when I found out she accused me of that. I told hr when I found out about it, is it against the law to look at someone? How would she know I am looking at her, she must be looking at me. It was really something stupid and she played the victim game.
 
Yeah once. The thing is I told a few of my co-workers I liked her and then she started looking at me and smiling at me, so I would do the same. I wanted to KO her when I found out she accused me of that. I told hr when I found out about it, is it against the law to look at someone? How would she know I am looking at her, she must be looking at me. It was really something stupid and she played the victim game.
Sorry that happened.
 
Yeah once. The thing is I told a few of my co-workers I liked her and then she started looking at me and smiling at me, so I would do the same. I wanted to KO her when I found out she accused me of that. I told hr when I found out about it, is it against the law to look at someone? How would she know I am looking at her, she must be looking at me. It was really something stupid and she played the victim game.
So it's different to TS situation where there is a pattern of women accusing him.

Also LOL at the girl going to HR for that. Most women I know here would just approach you and calling you out in person. Different cultures, hard to judge (?)
 
Sorry that happened.

I mean I i get why people say they have to be more careful how they talk to females now a days cause of this MeToo atmosphere. Now it seems you cant even look at a female even if they are looking at you as well or you will get metoo'ed.
 
So it's different to TS situation where there is a pattern of women accusing him.

Also LOL at the girl going to HR for that. Most women I know here would just approach you and calling you out in person. Different cultures, hard to judge (?)
I haven’t been repeated accused of sexual harassment. I had a cleaning lady say I was harassing her because I told her to wipe off a mat during a time when staph was going around. I guess maybe I have been semi accused of it in the past, but not fired for it. Honestly it’s getting hard to remember.
 
So it's different to TS situation where there is a pattern of women accusing him.

Also LOL at the girl going to HR for that. Most women I know here would just approach you and calling you out in person. Different cultures, hard to judge (?)

Fuck no, just that dumb tease. My older female friend who I told I liked her said forget her since she is a pothead. I should have listened to her. She is dumb as fuck and liked to play the victim game. You dont smile at a guy whom you dont like and thats what she would do.
 
Yes. I tried to put my hand up and say “Weird misunderstanding, nice to have met you have a nice day,” and she gave me eyes and said “Nice to meet you too.” That’s what happened.

So you said it was a weird misunderstanding but then after you said that you wanted to keep the weird misunderstandings going since you said after you said Nice to have met you have a nice day she said "nice to meet you too" in horny way? So you really didnt meant that it was weird misunderstanding since you still kept on with the weird misunderstandings. Do you get the problem with your story? You make no sense dude.
 
I haven’t been repeated accused of sexual harassment. I had a cleaning lady say I was harassing her because I told her to wipe off a mat during a time when staph was going around. I guess maybe I have been semi accused of it in the past, but not fired for it. Honestly it’s getting hard to remember.
So you got fired.

Dude.. your story has a lot of holes.
 
What is going on in here??

Everyone here seems to be on a mission to end @Amerikuracana and he just wants to keep digging a bigger hole for himself instead of admitting this thread didnt go the way he wanted it to. I mean it isnt far fetched that a 17 year old would be into a grown man but the way he puts his story makes him come off as creepy and assuming lots of things. He should have gave assuming things when he got called into HR but even at the end he claims the 17 year old gave him fuck eyes LOL. Instead of just leaving it at that it was a weird misunderstanding he kept on with the weird misunderstandings himself, pretty comical.
 
just admit it.

you knew she was young.

you wanted to fuck her. you wanted to get her pregnant.

you wanted to work your daughter into the conversation just so you could talk to her, & even more, to protect yourself in case shit didn't go your way.

in all of your stories, it's the world that's out to get you, where you're just an "innocent stand up guy".

you came on to an underage girl, she told her dad about it & you got the axe. there is no victory here for you, or her. not really.

in all of this you keep trying to make yourself look good in the context of sexualizing her, an underage girl.

dude, you are a creep, & God bless that child - she did the right thing.

you completely made up that bit about her knowing your daughter. normal fathers would feel worried about their daughters/children learning through the grape vine that their dad tried to come on to an underage girl, & even more, they'd be worried about the backlash their daughters/children would face as a result.

when you fabricate these stories, all the while declaring how you're honest & never lie - you insult our intelligence collectively here on sherdog.

you see the pattern here? the people treat you IRL, & the way people treat you on here?

you need to look in the mirror dude, & get your shit together. I mean that sincerely.

if this shit happened to my daughter/niece/family member, I'm sorry to say but I'd end you. I'd put you on blast for all the world to see so everyone would know about you & your perverse behavior.

stay the fuck away from kids man. seek help.

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