Relationships I cold approached three women at my mall

[Pierce 34]

Wanted to improve my verbal skills with the ladies so I randomly approached women at my mall. I opened them all with the question "excuse me, do you know where the food court" and I go off from there

1st chick was a single mom walking her kid, she was probably the most interested and actually stopped to talk to me and made eye contact. Actually carried a conversation. Didn't go for the number close oh well

2nd chick was in the bookstore, noticed her there. She walked away after I approached her and asked the opener question.

3rd chick was vaping outside the mall and I approached her. She was the worst one, made 0 eye contact and walked away right middle of the conversation LOL

I things to improve on by a lot (need to polish my flirty skills and don't go into interview mode, make jokes and tease the girl, go for the number close).

but my confidence/mojo with women is improving.

 

[Takes Two To Tango]

You miss all the shots you don't take.

That's what they say.

Respects.

 

[Pittie Petey]

 

[Aurelian]

Just ask for a number. You'd probably be like the 9th guy that week to try to get with them it's not a big deal.

 

[Crazy Source]

I get a rager, get in a queue behind a hot chick, and "bump" into her. If she doesn't like that flex fuck her and try again.

 

[Swiftie]

I didn't think many people went to malls anymore, let alone hit on women there.

 

[Pierce 34]

Just ask for a number. You'd probably be like the 9th guy that week to try to get with them it's not a big deal.

Ill do that, I approached girls to boost confidence

 

[Pierce 34]

 

[Aurelian]

Ill do that, I approached girls to boost confidence

The best way to boost confidence is to actually fuck them. Good luck.

 

[Pierce 34]

The best way to boost confidence is to actually fuck them. Good luck.

I like fucking

 

[Crazy Source]

The best way to boost confidence is to actually fuck them. Good luck.

I like fucking

Get to fucking, fellas.

 

[Versez]

You miss all the shots you don't take.

That's what they say.

Respects.

 

[Versez]

I didn't think many people went to malls anymore, let alone hit on women there.

in the 80s-90s it was a good approach, not anymore.

 

[Versez]

You have to be a gambler brother.



@Kowboy On Sherdog

 

[Kung Fu Kowboy]

Food Court?

They probably wondered how you were supposed to take them out when you are going to be on the toilet for the next 3 days

 

[El Panteron]

Women nowadays prefer to be approached either in bars and/or hanging around publicly (not sure how you barbarians do it, in Europe we got squares and pedestrian roads that get busy in the weekend), or online and through dating apps.

It's what it is, they have their reasons and I don't blame them, still it's shitty humans have become this insular.
Still you have to play the hand you're dealt.

 

[ricc505]

There may be nothing wrong with your approach, women are just as autistic as men nowadays. You like to fuck? So do they. The key is not creeping them out. Don't talk about MMA, don't talk about sherdog, or your workout routine.... What is she shopping for? Ask questions, tell her if you don't know anything about what she says. Women live to talk

 

[khukurikoo]

This one always works. Walk up with confidence, get really close, look them in the eye and then say "Look, we can do this the easy way or the hard way....but either way, I know what we're both going to be doing tonight."

Or if you want the less probability to go to prison option, you can always just shoulder check her. But not if she's carrying a drink that will spill. You don't want to flatten them like they're standing between you and the endzone, but just a bump. Then be an asshole and blame the whole thing on them. In the middle of her calling you names and being pissed off or even if she's not, just tell her she looks cute and to give you her number. If she's still pissed say it's obvious she likes you, and it's why she bumped into you in the 1st place and play it off. A slice of pizza later and a couple drinks at a bar then she's blowing you in your car in the parking lot. A 2025 love story.

 

[Noveltymortar]

If you own your own mall I can't imagine you'll have any problems finding a lady. I've heard they love mall owners.

 

[THEfightsAREfixed]

women are insane collectively and individually in every circumstance, so be sure to factor that into your approach