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In what ways have you noticed society and the culture has changed over the years?
I don't meant the obvious things like pop culture, celebrities, and fashion, but more in terms of behaviors and attitudes?
How are people acting differently?

What I observed:
I'm a 90s kid and one thing I notice now in the US is the stark change in the attitude towards drugs. I remember the DARE campaign and how my health teacher would warn us about the dangers of smoking weed, but now it seems smoking weed is almost as normal as drinking, and in some ways, more accepted than alcohol. It's such a contrast compared to how when I was a kid, weed was seen as one of the worst things you can do, but now everybody and their mom, including conservatives, snacks on edibles. The stigma against other drugs also seemeto be less of a thing too.

On the other hand people rarely smoke cigarettes anymore, albeit vaping has changed that trend a bit. Most younger folk think smoking is gross. I only know a handful of people who smoke cigs.

There are definitely less Christians than I remember. Pretty much everybody I knew as a kid was a christian in some form another but now a lot of younger people are atheist and I come into more contact with people of other religions like Muslims and new age spirituality.

Being gay is a lot more accepted too now. Gay kids would get bullied when I was going to school, parents would be afraid that their son is gay, I was told being gay would land me in hell, etc. Noone seems to bat an eye anymore if you're gay.

At the same time, people seem to be making a bigger deal about race than before. I remember growing up with the idea that America was a diverse place where everybody was equal. Your race didn't matter, but now it seems to matter a lot. It seems to make it's way into so many things now, which is annoying and not what I expected. I always assumed people would care less about race as society progressed but it has gone the opposite direction.

Food has become more diverse. Asian food especially seems to be more common than I remember. When I was in college I would have to drive over other towns to find a close to authentic Korean or Indian place.

Younger people now don't seem to have the same sense of etiquette. Things like holding doors open for strangers or saying "excuse me" don't seem be as common.
 
Society has changed a lot since 200 - 300 years ago.
 
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Based on what I've seen online, there seems to be more acceptance towards sex work via onlyfans because it's seen as "empowering" for women. Sometimes woman being encouraged to be a whore for money. But I haven't seen this attitude in real life so much. I've met a couple women who openly have an onlyfans but most women I know still don't want to be seen as whores.
 
There is so much less crime than there was in the 90s. So much less.

But at the same time, people have become completely afraid of their own shadows, and are convinced crime rates have never been higher. They walk around scared and paranoid.

The other thing is that people are incredibly rude and inconsiderate now. I think it’s due to watching 30 years of reality tv in which they view “successful” people being inconsiderate to everyone around them.
They believe that success is defined by the number of people you can inconvenience and displace in your wake of idiocy.
 
People here in America have become more rude and inconsiderate. People aren't getting married and having kids nearly as much. Porn addiction is astronomical. Depression is high. People are on more medication. Everything is more expensive. National credit card debt is now over 1 Trillion. Millennials hardly own any houses. Racial tensions are now arguably worse than in the 90s. Young men who aren't considered attractive have all retreated to video games, losing all hope in the dating apps

My life is good, but from where I'm standing I'm pretty sure westren civilization is collapsing.
 
Technology and religion (namely Christianity) being less of a focus/ guide in the Millenial generation. Religion (especially Christianity in America) is making a "comeback" so to speak with Gen Z . In 15 20 years as a result things will likely be more conservative in nature. Folks underestimate how much influence religion has on society . In America It's starting to shift towards religion now after beginning the shift away from in the 70s/80s/90s.


Imo you want to see how society is as a whole look to how religious people are ..

As a believing Christian I am happy with the recent change of direction in US in regards to Christianity and hope it lasts.
 
Sanctuary Cities Congress with this new shocking law was drafted, Congress voted on and Approved it, then put it in place to negatively affect public safety reducing LAPD to LARP.


 
We are more socially engaged with one another’s opinions and ideas prodded by a financial model that benefits from disagreement and conflict through algorithms.
In many places dialogue is isolated ,removed, or censored because it doesn’t fit the preferred narrative. When this happens an open exchange of ideas is not possible. Cementing peoples ideas and at times misaligned confidence in their own opinions through isolated and confirmation biases.
People used to have more nuanced and original opinions. Now assuming it is actually a person you are communicating with the preferred and approved talking points are repeated by their respective camps as the absolute truth and gospel.
 
I feel like people used to meet up in person a lot more often and regularly. And the cost of everything has gone absolutely mad.

I feel like the folks on top now seem to want to create a a society in which the basic social unit is you alone with your tv and laptop.

Society has changed in that people aren't organized into active unions, or political associations, or even churches. Churches are one of the last places left where people will actually congregate to talk about and even they are dwindling. So the cost of everything goes up and nobody knows what to do about it. No chance for a general strike. It sucks.
 
I grew up in the 80's, so I basically feel like I'm living on a different planet at this point. What life was like in the 80's:

1.) High-trust society - doors unlocked till dark; kids out playing till dark
2.) Drugs were bad
3.) Everyone still knew what a man was, and what a woman was
4.) The mentally deranged were kept hidden at home or put in an institution somewhere, not allowed to shoot up schools
5.) Racism was virtually non-existent, nobody talked about it; Arnold was a guest star on Knight Rider, he didn't replace Knight Rider
6.) People were fit, women were hot, and obesity was rare
7.) Music, cinema, and television were at high-water marks and your kids could watch Disney without getting groomed
8.) People were civil and got handled in the rare cases they weren't
9.) Urban legends were awesome and not easily dispelled by some asswipe who pretended to be an expert after a 2-second google search
10.) Knowledge was deep though not necessarily wide (people now have a wide breadth of knowledge that is extremely shallow)
11.) Women still had big, beautiful bushes
12.) The president was so loved and respected he won 49 states (and that will never, ever happen again)

That's off the top of my head.
 
In what ways have you noticed society and the culture has changed over the years?
I don't meant the obvious things like pop culture, celebrities, and fashion, but more in terms of behaviors and attitudes?
How are people acting differently?

What I observed:
I'm a 90s kid and one thing I notice now in the US is the stark change in the attitude towards drugs. I remember the DARE campaign and how my health teacher would warn us about the dangers of smoking weed, but now it seems smoking weed is almost as normal as drinking, and in some ways, more accepted than alcohol. It's such a contrast compared to how when I was a kid, weed was seen as one of the worst things you can do, but now everybody and their mom, including conservatives, snacks on edibles. The stigma against other drugs also seemeto be less of a thing too.

On the other hand people rarely smoke cigarettes anymore, albeit vaping has changed that trend a bit. Most younger folk think smoking is gross. I only know a handful of people who smoke cigs.

There are definitely less Christians than I remember. Pretty much everybody I knew as a kid was a christian in some form another but now a lot of younger people are atheist and I come into more contact with people of other religions like Muslims and new age spirituality.

Being gay is a lot more accepted too now. Gay kids would get bullied when I was going to school, parents would be afraid that their son is gay, I was told being gay would land me in hell, etc. Noone seems to bat an eye anymore if you're gay.

At the same time, people seem to be making a bigger deal about race than before. I remember growing up with the idea that America was a diverse place where everybody was equal. Your race didn't matter, but now it seems to matter a lot. It seems to make it's way into so many things now, which is annoying and not what I expected. I always assumed people would care less about race as society progressed but it has gone the opposite direction.

Food has become more diverse. Asian food especially seems to be more common than I remember. When I was in college I would have to drive over other towns to find a close to authentic Korean or Indian place.

Younger people now don't seem to have the same sense of etiquette. Things like holding doors open for strangers or saying "excuse me" don't seem be as common.
Kids who went through the D.A.R.E. program were more likely to do drugs and abuse it than kids who didn't take the program <lmao><lol><Dany07>
 

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