How do you feel about large age gaps in relationships?

Apparently now a lot of gen Z girls have been dating guys a lot older than they are.

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That chick in the bottom right. I thought she was the old one at first. Damn she looks like a mess.

Maybe if she fixed her hair...
 
I personally wouldn’t date a divorced man. Damaged goods. Used up goods. Wasn’t good enough for one woman, can’t imagine he’d be good enough for my standard either.

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That goes double for divorced bitches.
 
I don't care. Gen Z men are a lot wimpier than a 36 year old so I see how this is happening. Gen Z also did not develop any skills speaking to women like we had to in the landline phone days. We didn't text we had to speak to people face to face.
 
Apparently now a lot of gen Z girls have been dating guys a lot older than they are.

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I was 14 years older than my first wife. After we divorced, she married a fellow who was around 20 years older than she.
 
Mens preferences in women by age
Men Women
25 20
30 25
40 25
50 26
60 27
100 29

you can see that based on the science, that's what men like, dont fight it.
Is muslim/taliban/moderate included in science?
 
I personally wouldn’t date a divorced man. Damaged goods. Used up goods. Wasn’t good enough for one woman, can’t imagine he’d be good enough for my standard either.

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It's funny that most women assume the woman left the man. I left my ex, did the divorcing.

I did go out with a few divorced women, they were a bag of crazy. Two said I must be gay because I didn't want to go out with them again.

I eventually married a women that's a decade younger, which is tame according to this thread. She was 27 when we met though, I don't know how these guys can date 20-22 year olds. It's like talking to a kid.
 
Now? This isn't new.
People have been shocked in a other thread that showed more girls in their 20s are in relationships than guys by a significant margin.

But it's because a lot of them date older rather than some 25 year old stud managing 5 girlfriends which is the incel conspiracy theory.
 
The other day at Walmart, I saw this older asian man holding hands with some much younger possibly SE asian ugly woman and assumed he left his wife and kids for her. Or maybe he got her from hostess bar.
 
As you guys know my girlfriend is 14 years younger than me. I've met her mom and dad and they don't approve of the age gap but also I've grown on them over time. As for going out nobody really notices the age gap as I don't really look my age, I look younger.
 
I started dating a 26 year-old when I was 18 . Not a huge gap of 8 years but when you're still a dumb kid and she's a grown woman it can seem it .
 
Im 46. In the last year ages I've dated are. 42, 31, 27, 32, 22, 36. The only ones I wanted anything more then casual was the 27 and the current 36.

My kids dont get it they wonder why these younger women want my old ass. A few of these women are incredibly beautiful too. My daughter especially talks so much shit! I dont really get it either I just go with it.

The 22 year old just wanted to fuck all the time, we had nothing in common, she had just graduated college. The 27 year old and current 36 year old, we have lots in common and both had serious relationships in the
past which I think helps w maturity.

Based on my experience this younger women older man thing is pretty common
 
I'm the younger one in my relationship, by quite a bit.

I love her, but it causes friction.
 
People have been shocked in a other thread that showed more girls in their 20s are in relationships than guys by a significant margin.

But it's because a lot of them date older rather than some 25 year old stud managing 5 girlfriends which is the incel conspiracy theory.
Before getting married, I was living that conspiracy theory. Quite a few women I was sleeping with, but I would have considered myself "single". At least a few of those women would have said they were seeing someone. I don't think my experience was that unique.

There are probably a few reasons for those statistics in the other thread, such as:
1. The statistics are garbage.
2. The incel theory is partially true.
3. Like you mentioned, age variance in dating.
 
Not a problem to me. It's all about chemistry. Sometimes you'll meet someone much younger than you and just vibe with them so much. And they'll feel the same way.
 
As you guys know my girlfriend is 14 years younger than me. I've met her mom and dad and they don't approve of the age gap but also I've grown on them over time. As for going out nobody really notices the age gap as I don't really look my age, I look younger.

Damn I thought your landlady's parents would have ben dead for years.
 
I know this is going to be disliked by quite a few, but a mentally and physically fit 25 y o man is typically too wild and filled with testosterone to settle down and start a family.

At the same time, a mentally fit woman typically starts having thoughts of settling down and starting a family around that age, and start looking for partners who want that too, in order to have their kids say in the next 5 years.

Thus, it is only natural that women settle down with older men. There are a lot of outliers of course but I think that this is a general rule which is a good guideline. I don‘t think that a 25 y o man ready to change diapers is really entirely normal, nor that a 25 y o woman who doesn‘t start to have the first baby thoughts is normal either.

Men and women are different, built different and have different instincts.
 
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