Girls talk
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I feel molested after every grappling class....when I have to roll with the purples and highly athletic blue belts.
I've got to imagine that there are some douchebags out that take advantage of the situation, especially newer guys. Probably hard to complain about too between it being so easy to claim it was unintentional and girls not wanting to be treated different.
lakergirl52
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IMHO she should grow up and realize what the sport is about. Yeah, your gonna be in some suggestive positions when your rolling with guys, get used to it. Now if there is a guy that is being a d-bag to her then I understand or if there are some guys that aren't hygenic or sweat alot I REALLY understand! But if she's just saying that; grow up.....
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right, she feels like she has been molested after every class. (if this is even remotely tru), if she really felt like that she is either full of shit or doesn't know what getting molested feels like.
I would think you would feel really shitty if you got molested. can't see you paying for that.
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she chose to take the class. if she doesnt want to get grabbed and tossed around she should pick a different sport.
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They need to get over it.
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Maybe she was joking and you're taking her too seriously.
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Would you react the same way if a guy said the same thing? Because it's not a very uncommon way to express how powerless you feel when rolling with a superior grappler.
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Every girl I've ever met that was training in BJJ understood what she was getting herself into, even the new girls.
How long has she been training? If it's her first class, I can understand her being uncomfortable...heck...new guys get uncomfortable rolling with girls. If she's been training for a couple of classes and still feels uncomfortable, then she shouldn't be doing jiu jitsu. I'm a girl and I don't feel at all molested. When I'm owned by a higher belt, I just feel like I should work on my technique. I get frustrated for like 2 minutes then and push my self harder to get better 
What have this to do with anything?
How long has she been training? If it's her first class, I can understand her being uncomfortable...heck...new guys get uncomfortable rolling with girls. If she's been training for a couple of classes and still feels uncomfortable, then she shouldn't be doing jiu jitsu. I'm a girl and I don't feel at all molested. When I'm owned by a higher belt, I just feel like I should work on my technique. I get frustrated for like 2 minutes then and push my self harder to get better
Its was her first time at our training, but she have trained Sub Wrestling some others place before.
