Relationships Do you think you’re really with your soulmate?

soulmate is a romanticized bond considering divorce and separation rates......

I guess if you're still happy after 20 years, then you can say they are your soulmate, otherwise, it's often temporary, and unrealistic.

the counter is that, you have a lot of ideals lined up, you have some chemistry, and you're both willing to make it work, you will end up with a life long partner that others can consider a soulmate, but it's really just that you and your partner agree to make it work.
 
Phlog said:
From what I understand we are, or rather our entire universe is a holographic projection on the boundary layer of a higher dimensional universes black hole.

In the higher dimension time moves in any direction like we can move through spacial dimensions.

I'm reasonably sure that this higher dimensional universe is conscious and that it is one continuous whole. The soul I think refers to that which we are projections of. It doesn't exist as such in our universe and yet we have the most intimate relationship with it.

So considering that all of time is decided and you cannot live another life, just as a character in a film cannot live a different life than the one that is portrayed in the film, a soul mate could be considered, I think to be either your primary relationship, or one that is projected from the same source in the higher dimensional reality.
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This reads like a bunch of nonsense. Almost everyone's first primary relationship was with their mother. Does that mean their mother was their soul mate?
 
Why did you said:
Most of us are in relationships ,we have a wife, husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend ,and we might even feel that we’ve found “the one.”

But what if you had the chance to meet every single person on Earth?
To really know them ,their personality, values, sense of humor, chemistry, everything.
Would you still pick your current partner?
Is it possible that most of us aren’t actually with the person who’s the best match for us, simply because we’ll never meet all the people who could be?

It makes me wonder if “soulmates” truly exist ,or if love is more about timing, proximity, and building something meaningful with whoever life happens to put in front of us.
What do you think?
Are we with our soulmate ,or just someone who fit into our lives at the right time?
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How would you quantify that?
 
There is no such thing as a soul mate. There are people you like, and can also tolerate, who can also tolerate you.
 
The concept of what if you could meet other people in your life is bogus, there is only one way your life unfolds, there is no other possibility. Time is just another dimension like 1, 2nd and 3rd dimensions. Imagining a different possibility is an artifact of our evolution.

KeepingItReal said:
This reads like a bunch of nonsense. Almost everyone's first primary relationship was with their mother. Does that mean their mother was their soul mate?
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Seeing as I was talking about a higher dimensional reality that our 4 dimensional spacetime exists within, time is not the relevent interpretation of 'primary'. I used it in the sense of rank rather than first experienced.

I appreciate that I may have been speaking over your head, I'm not bothering to sugar coat my interpretations at the moment but to say it as I see it. What about what I said do you not understand? I'm happy to explain any specific part if you have questions relating to it.
 
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Contempt said:
Yep, we were just destined to be together.

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Some would say they age gap is too big but I don't and I support your relationship, may you have many happy hours together, until her identical twin shows up.......


Ps I will not tell her about the coke and hookers because she's probably joining in.... The dirty minx.....
 
Don’t care how “special” you believe your marriage to be.

It’s 99% sure if you’d been born in a different town or a different decade etc you’d also find a different soulmate 100 times over.

Fact is there’s probably millions of partners out there right now, who we are all compatible with.


Remember my brother got dumped by his girlfriend of 6 years. He was devestated. He turned to the bottle for a few months, met a girl at a wedding and knocked her up.

20 years later they have 2 kids, and a happy marriage.

Almost certain if she didn’t get pregnant, it’d have been a fling.



Like the chances you were even born is astronomical. Same for your partner. The chances that you found the absolute perfect person for you is mathematical zero. Spare all the fate nonsense.
 
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Kardashians said:
I’m sure the fellas will get a kick out of this, but I believe my soul mate was my cat Fiddy. I don’t think soul mates have to be a romantic connection, doesn’t even have to be shared between humans.

I don’t look for a soulmate tho.
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Yall in "that" kind of relationship ?
 
Phlog said:
The concept of what if you could meet other people in your life is bogus, there is only one way your life unfolds, there is no other possibility. Time is just another dimension like 1, 2nd and 3rd dimensions. Imagining a different possibility is an artifact of our evolution.


Seeing as I was talking about a higher dimensional reality that our 4 dimensional spacetime exists within, time is not the relevent interpretation of 'primary'. I used it in the sense of rank rather than first experienced.

I appreciate that I may have been speaking over your head, I'm not bothering to sugar coat my interpretations at the moment but to say it as I see it. What about what I said do you not understand? I'm happy to explain any specific part if you have questions relating to it.
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I don't have any questions, like you said you are speaking over my head. Come on back down to earth when you want to talk.
 
Why did you said:
Most of us are in relationships ,we have a wife, husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend ,and we might even feel that we’ve found “the one.”

But what if you had the chance to meet every single person on Earth?
To really know them ,their personality, values, sense of humor, chemistry, everything.
Would you still pick your current partner?
Is it possible that most of us aren’t actually with the person who’s the best match for us, simply because we’ll never meet all the people who could be?

It makes me wonder if “soulmates” truly exist ,or if love is more about timing, proximity, and building something meaningful with whoever life happens to put in front of us.
What do you think?
Are we with our soulmate ,or just someone who fit into our lives at the right time?
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I met her, but we are not together. It is like no other connection. If I had guess I would say we will not be together. I don't feel the same urge, and i will not wait for her. Timing has to be right.
 
No, but I was supposedly already with a few. Imagine that
 
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