Do you think this text is too harsh?

jgarner said:
I know you say that, but you're not the first person to think that. What's stopping her from dropping by or meeting him during working hours or at lunch? You don't track her every second of her life. She told you it lasted 3 days. Could have lasted 3 months. Could have never stopped. You just can't trust what she tells you. She clearly doesn't care about your feelings, nor does she have your best interests in her heart.
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She could've done stuff on her lunch break but I doubt it. She wsd literally texting me non stop if she wasnt with me. Anything is possible though, that's why I want the paternity test done now.
 
Drenalin said:
She could've done stuff on her lunch break but I doubt it. She wsd literally texting me non stop if she wasnt with me. Anything is possible though, that's why I want the paternity test done now.
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I know bitches that would call their boyfriend and talk to them while they are still naked in bed with another man. Texting you doesn't mean a damned thing. Be smart.
 
Drenalin said:
She works full time & she still lives paycheck to paycheck. She also work nights. I work full time too but I'm self employed & I can work my own schedule. I'll be able to spend more time with kids, given my flexible schedule. She'll need day care. She also won't be able to afford her own place once the babies arrive. She'll have to move in with her boyfriend, even though I doubt that matters.
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You really don't understand that you will be paying for those things?
 
jgarner said:
I know bitches that would call their boyfriend and talk to them while they are still naked in bed with another man. Texting you doesn't mean a damned thing. Be smart.
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Well like I've said, hopefully I'm not the father because I don't want kids with someone like her. Realistically though, odds are I'm the father. This isn't one of those situations where the guy is hoping he's the father. I'm hoping I'm not & she is too.
 
Drenalin said:
I planned on letting her have full custody until her paternity leave is up. She also doesn't think she'll be able to breastfeed.
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Usually a person getting PATERNITY leave can't breastfeed.
 
Uhm...depends on your goal.

Not too harsh if you plan on not being involved with her in the short or long term. Too harsh if you are going to be involved.
 
Drenalin said:
That's funny. I remember talking to her about "maternity" leave & she corrected me & said it's "paternity" leave.
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With that level of intelligence, let's hope they're not your kids.
 
Reading this thread it seems pretty obvious that you aren't the father TS
 
Not to harsh but you said hurtful things that were unnecessary. When dealing with crazy people don't waste your time with small insults. You want to do your best to come across as mature and respectful as possible even when they aren't doing the same. Within reason of course.
 
faustian said:
Reading this thread it seems pretty obvious that you aren't the father TS
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You obviously haven't read it all it. I hope I'm not the father. She hopes im not father. Problem is when im fucking her 3-4 times a day & the conception date is right in the middle of that, odds are I'm the father
 
method115 said:
Not to harsh but you said hurtful things that were unnecessary. When dealing with crazy people don't waste your time with small insults. You want to do your best to come across as mature and respectful as possible even when they aren't doing the same. Within reason of course.
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All I did was state facts
 
Drenalin said:
All I did was state facts
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I get it but again it's unnecessary and just giving her reasons to be more crazy. If your ok with that that's fine. Dealing with a crazy ex I decided to just ignore anything hurtful she would try to say or do to me (again within reason) and it just made things so much better. My current wife hates how much I'll ignore from my ex or she did at first now she understands why I handle it the way I do.
 
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