Do you think this text is too harsh?

Oh & I thought it would be funny to mention that I'm fairly certain her sister wants my nuts. She has talked to me on Facebook & made sure to mention she wouldn't tell anyone that we talked lol even though nothing was even said that should be hidden.

It would be the ultimate payback to start banging her sister but I'm not gonna go there. This shit is Jerry Springer enough already
 
I'm having trouble getting the prenatal paternity test done but I shouldn't have any problem with the normal after birth paternity test.

Right. Just make sure you don't sign the birth certificate before you get those results.
 
Are you stupid?

He is the potential father. He can show up. He may not be able to be in the actual exam room because of patient confidentiality, but he can come to the center, be there, and ask to see the results.

You're a fucking retard.

I know the law, rookie.

Being "at the appointments" implies being in the room. And yes, he can ask to see the results, and then be denied. Lol at talking about patient confidentiality in the same sentence as that.
 
Being "at the appointments" implies being in the room. And yes, he can ask to see the results, and then be denied. Lol at talking about patient confidentiality in the same sentence as that.
The next doctors appt is this morning. I'm gonna tell her I'm on my way & see what she says. Honestly she just doesn't want me there because she's embarrassed that we have to ask them for a prenatal paternity test
 
So some on here remember my story. I'll sum it real fast with cliffs

-gf asks me to have kids with her
- she gets pregnant & instantly leaves
-tells me she was also trying to have kids with her ex at the same time, but she's certain I'm the father based on estimated conception date
-it's a high risk twin pregnancy & one baby isn't growing & is expected to pass any day now

So I sent her this message & now she says I'm not allowed at the doctors appointments anymore. Shitty part is I was planning on asking the doctors about a prenatal paternity test right now before I buy a house & a new truck, which I need before the babies are born. She says she's tired of my nasty remarks. Honestly I think I'm being rather nice considering what she did to me.

"I didn't say anything that wasn't true. You might not wanna admit that you're selfish & immature but you've proven otherwise. Mature people don't try to have kids with 2 guys at the same time & then leave the one they think is the father. You're also with a guy who cheats on you & has kids with other women. Not to mention he prays on your parents to manipulate you. That's a clear sign that you have mental health issues. You might not wanna accept that but it's a fact. And don't worry I'll pay for that paternity test even though it's your fault that I need one. You probably can't afford it anyway"

Not to be a prick but you need to man the fuck up. She told you of ONE, let's be honest she only told you because she saw you as weak and would soften like a cock after orgasm(over 40 cock).

1-SEE A VERY VERY GOOD SOLICITOR

2-Stop all communication after the last email to her saying you were harassed by some guy saying he was the father and he said your EX girlfriend (mole or whatever her name is) wanted you to pay instead of him. Luckily for you hey he couldn't live knowing his child had another name.

3- SEE A VERY VERY GOOD SOLICITOR

4- Make sure you have some of the child's hair if you ever meet.

I don't know you from a bar of soap but your story sounds like you're being played. If it's your kid man up and pay(stupid tax) bit until you have proof fuck her, if smart you'll get snipped and no one knows esp a girlfriend/her. If she wraps the legs around tight when you want to pullout REDFLAG, this is when you ACT worried and you've got a guaranteed safe, great root.

Anymore advice is $450 AUD per hour, good luck.
 
Yeah I've learned that the hard way many times. Just imagine adding crazy pregnancy hormones on top of that.

She already tells me that a 50/50 custody isn't fair to her lol she's really that crazy. She only wants me to have the babies while she's at work & she works nights. Like I'm the babysitter or something. Bitch is nuts
Also you can do whatever you want and tell her to shove it up her ass.

You can go to the appointments.

You better hope the other guy is the father. If not, you're in for a world of shit for the next 2 decades.

Unless you get creative and do this -

If it is yours, I'd plant some top shelf butter crack on her car or something, call the boys up and have her arrested.

Possession is possession, and she'll never beat the charge.

Take her to court and you're pretty much guaranteed sole custody with that charge against her.

Then get a restraining order on her.

With sole custody and a restraining order, you'll have it as about as good as you can get.

Not bad, all's fair in love and war so.... Not bad.
 
I'm baffled. So basically your girlfriend was trying to get pregnant by two guys, she achieves that, and now you're confused as to why she's giving you the cold shoulder?

She just wanted a baby / babies.

Why would you be buying a house for you and the family?
 
Well no restraining order & the babies haven't been born yet so I don't know if I'm the dad. She says I am though. I've been to all of the appointments so far

Sue her for jeapordizing your health? Have you got yourself tested for stds?
 
That's basically what I told her. I also need to be careful incase we end up in court.

"I want you to know one thing. Let's not forget, we got along just fine during that brief period when you were actually nice to me & treated me as if I was a friend. I proved I can still be nice as can be to you, but then once again you let your unnecessary relationship get in the way. Just like how you let your unnecessary relationship get in the way of being with children. How I act is determined by the vibe I get from you. And if you do what you did to me, to anyone else, they'd be pissed too & probably handle it a lot worse. You can't expect to ruin my life & have me just deal with it. Once again a sign of selfishness which is a non stop theme with you"

Fuck mate, are you retarded? You repeatably admit sexual relations with a potential sociopath. Don't get me wrong, if it's your kid it's your responsibility but she chose you as you're more likely to email/txt/own a kid that might not be yours.

Shut the dfck up until you know 1 way or another and you're OT even paying me
 
Lol I'm not doing anything illegal. Also are you positive I have rights to be at the appointments? The next appt is tomorrow morning

Only a complete fucking idiot would request to be there, that's as good as admission of guilt (notice no-one else is lining up as a sucker)
 
Well no restraining order & the babies haven't been born yet so I don't know if I'm the dad. She says I am though. I've been to all of the appointments so far

Christ almighty do you have a brain, almost every action you do is an admission of guilt yet you're taking a scamming bitch's word for it
 
I'm baffled. So basically your girlfriend was trying to get pregnant by two guys, she achieves that, and now you're confused as to why she's giving you the cold shoulder?

She just wanted a baby / babies.

Why would you be buying a house for you and the family?
Read the thread title. I was asking if I was being too harsh. We'll end up in court.

And I need a house or at least a bigger place if the babies are mine.
 
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I have thought about suing her. No I haven't been tested

You should test asap. And test for HIV which you can do 2/3 months after the last intercourse with her.

Talked to the ex? He deserve a beatdown.
 
You should test asap. And test for HIV which you can do 2/3 months after the last intercourse with her.

Talked to the ex? He deserve a beatdown.
I've tried talking to him but she says he won't talk to me because his feelings are hurt that the babies aren't his. No doubt I will have a talk with him before he's around my kids
 
I've tried talking to him but she says he won't talk to me because his feelings are hurt that the babies aren't his. No doubt I will have a talk with him before he's around my kids

His feelings are hurt when he cheated with your girlfriend?

Throw them off a cliff. What a piece of scum. Seriously.
 
Christ almighty do you have a brain, almost every action you do is an admission of guilt yet you're taking a scamming bitch's word for it
Admission of guilt? Given the all the details, it's a 99% chance I'm the father. Trust me if I thought I wasn't the father, I would've been gone along time ago. We are already making decisions on the survival of the babies. It's a very dangerous high risk pregnancy. Obviously I'm going to be incolved in all of that. Also when it comes time for court, I'll look much better having been involved the whole time
 
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You're nuts

No worries, I'll watch mayidiot over the next 9 months and see how that go

TBH my advice is exactly what a solicitor would give yet I'm nuts. Lol I think you're just another attention seeking idiot and the majority of these sjf's are lining up for your boat.... Good fucking luck with that and remember me in 5 years, as you'll have at least another 13 to go:) good luck clown
 
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