Ronda mentally broke when she thought "why can't i throw you!", then boom (cause Ronda was going for a neck grab), Holly was just too big, too strong.
When Holly took away Ronda's happy place, her Judo, Ronda regressed to that of a grade schooler, flailing her arms like a petulant child
This is where Holly stole Ronda's dignity, this is something Ronda could never take back
And of course where Holly stole Ronda's soul, if you look Ronda is trying to grab it back, but only finds Herb Deans face instead
Everyone was fine w/ Gina retiring after getting beat by Cyborg, many thought she was really facing a man and after being busted for PED's they were right.