Relationships Do you forgive and let it go or do you still hold grudges?

[TeTe]

I don't hold grudges but I'm quick to run a mofo out of my life for good and never look back if you do me dirty. I just have a low tolerance for bullshit to begin with.

 

[Joe_Armstrong]

Depends on the nature of the act

 

[fingercuffs]

I use to hold grudges when I was younger and when I get slighted, I even returned the favor so to say.

But now at my age I just let it go and move on to the next moment, chapter of my life.

You live and learn and that's what you do, not worth it to get back at someone.

It's too burdensome to hold a grudge and look for some kind of revenge.

I'm vindictive as all fuck. Since moving from country to country I guess I'm less so, but I will burn a friendship over the slightest thing and have frequently.

 

[Fug]

Forgive but don't forget

 

[Kung Fu Kowboy]

Not really.
But I do have a good memory and I might never talk to you again. If you have broken my trust, its hard to win it back.
But wanting revenge and keep thinking about things?
Naw. Life too busy for that shit.

 

[chardog]

forgive and forget, I dont have the mental capacity to keep it going.

my wife on the other hand, she wont even forgive me for cheating on her........... in her dreams

it's too much mind rent space to keep it going

 

[usernamee]

I forgive but don't forget and instead Raja Jackson the motherfucker.

 

[chardog]

Depends on the situation. Like if your girlfriend / wife cheated on you, I'm going to hold on to that for the rest of my life.

even then, you move on, it'll be rough for a while, however it's not like sour grapes forever...... and I've seen people keep that hate charade for decades, so it is possible, but it seems silly to me.

 

[freakroor]

always forgive and forget, unless the person caused you serious harm with insufficient apology when they had the chance. And even then its usually better to just move on and dont waste energy thinking about it

fuck carrying old baggage. Psychedelics (LSD preferably) are good reset tool every few months

 

[freakroor]

The Torah teaches to be as vengeful and spiteful as possible and I listen to the book.

Jk

u missed the part about Yom Kippur

 

[markantony20]

I’m a good Jewish boy I never forget

 

[Intermission]

I forgive lsa