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Anybody who would walk away from kids they love and who love them is a dick. Period. Be mad at the mother. The kids clearly already have a terrible person as a mother. This is your opportunity to continue to be a role model, a Dad and to love them the same way you always have. They are the same kids. You are the same Dad. Nothing needs to change. As the father of an adopted kid I can assure that "blood" has little to nothing to being a "family."
I agree, but we can't ignore biology. There is a strong biological urge to reject everything and everyone here. It's the essence of this whole debate as far as I'm concerned.