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Or even had a long term relationship or even married this person?

My high school crush was into me just as much as I was into her.

But I pretended to be not interested when approached. I was so shy back then, I couldn't handle the attention.

Very strange behaviour. I say no regrets, but this one bothers me till this day. lol

Actually I'm ok with it, it happened for a reason. You live and learn.
 
No , there was a girl who was into me and I was into her , we acted as dates for each other etc upon occasion but I was nervous about asking her out and didn't take the chance.

So , a bit of time goes by , we still see each other socially and I started dating someone and thought it would be nice if the girlfriend met with the former crush and another female friend.

Big mistake, we went bowling the 4 of us , my other female friend was fine , my GF was fine and the crush turned into a right bitch and a lot of nasty stuff was overheard by me.

That's when I figured out that she also had major feelings still for me and also what she could be like....

As for the girl I was seeing...well...she dealt with anything she heard quite diplomatically and after 35 years or so together, 29 married and 2 kids , I reckon she's a keeper....
 
We hooked up. Later, when we were studying in university. One night, nothing more. No regrets, probably if I had to re-live that situation I would not even bother.
 
A few of them. Not most of them though.
 
Nope. Never was able to get with any of my actual crushes in school or otherwise. Hooked up with a girl(ex) who had a huge crush on me, years later, but, it died out after almost 13 years.
 
Yeah. 1 each from different schools when I was in hs. And in the colleges I've been to as well. I got a great streak going.
 
Nope. She was my best friend in high school and we never hooked up. We felt each other up a little bit that's it.

10 years after high school she started working at my work, we started talking again. She started dating the guy at my work. I quit and never saw her.

7 years later she starts coming to my next workplace and I see her, she tells me she's married now. She asks for my number and says she wants to hang out, which is dangerous cause sh3 knows I still want to bang her
 
JoeyJoeJoeJr said:
Nope. She was my best friend in high school and we never hooked up. We felt each other up a little bit that's it.

10 years after high school she started working at my work, we started talking again. She started dating the guy at my work. I quit and never saw her.

7 years later she starts coming to my next workplace and I see her, she tells me she's married now. She asks for my number and says she wants to hang out, which is dangerous cause sh3 knows I still want to bang her
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that's gotta be the longest friendzone stretch I've heard of <lol>

I honestly cant recall having a crush in high school, probably gay back then
 
Takes Two To Tango said:
Or even had a long term relationship or even married this person?

My high school crush was into me just as much as I was into her.

But I pretended to be not interested when approached. I was so shy back then, I couldn't handle the attention.

Very strange behaviour. I say no regrets, but this one bothers me till this day. lol

Actually I'm ok with it, it happened for a reason. You live and learn.
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Yea hooked up with and married her. 1998 to forever.
 
Nah. I didn’t date or hook up with anybody while I was in school. I had too much going on in my personal life to want to even try. There were a lot of dudes who did try tho. Recently one of them hit me up on Facebook because he’s in the area. Ignored him. Again, I ain’t into all that.
 
No but I looked her up on Myspace a few years later and saw that she moved out of state and was a lesbian <JagsKiddingMe>
I knew her for a summer and we held hands once, that's as far as it got, it all makes sense <Fedor23>
 
No. Well we fooled around a bit but not bang. Friend zone for a while. Then it was always one of us was always dating someone else but we always remained friends. She gets married. Lose touch. She gets divorced and starts contacting me again like crazy saying she made a big mistake.


I’m in a relationship then but we talk a lot. Then she marries again but keeps in touch. Then some risqué pics go back and forth. Then I get a voice message from the husband. He’s none to happy. She had to pick staying married or taking to me. She picked staying married. Heh.

I blew that one for sure. Also blew one about 5-10 years ago. A whole other story.
 
I had several crushes in high school.

One friend-zoned me but then when we were in our 30's she tracked me down online after her husband cheated on her a bunch of times and she wanted to get with me. I friend-zoned her.

Another one I managed to date for a while, in hindsight I think she wanted to bang but I was too dumb to pick up on the signals so she dumped me shortly after.

Another one wasn't really my crush, but I thought she was insanely hot. When we were in our late 20's she tracked me down online and pretty much invited me to come visit her to bang, and she admitted she had a crush on me since high school. But by that time I was already married and we were like 1000 miles apart so even if I were single it probably wouldn't go anywhere.

Another one, I got drunk and tracked her down years after high school and confessed that I had a crush on her. She rejected me hard. That was painful. And I deserved it.

The last one is the most painful. I never had the courage to ask her out even though I know she kinda liked me. I knew she was too good for me. She had a stable family and was headed to a good college. I looked her up later and she was married to some doctor and had a perfect life. I know she wouldn't have had that with me, so we both wound up with the lives we deserved I guess.
 
No, I was a massive nerd in high-school and was definitely a late bloomer (gifted program, acne, rail thin). However, I did have the opportunity to hook up with two girls I had liked in high-school more than a decade later.
 
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