Did you bully kids at school ?

[Red Beard]

I was the bully slayer in school. I got in many a fight defending those that were incapable. True story, the reason I got into boxing was defending a female when I was 9. This kid name Joey pushed a girl Ashley off the tire swing and I defended her. I pushed him down and he proceeded to whoop my ass. I went home with a fat lip and my Mom enrolled me in Kempo Karate and boxing. I beat the ever loving piss out of Joey when I was 10. I saw that kid when I was 25 at a Chiles and we still had beef lol. Fuck Joey.

 

[lostdog000]

i was no bully
i do remember being a dick to some kids sometimes though

 

[Kingz]

Yes. In elementary school I was a bully. First grade to fourth grade. The main target was much smaller kid than me and my friends and he was easy to get riled up. Most of the time we would just tease him into a tantrum and we would laugh at him as he melted down…which made him melt down even more.

Sometimes he got mad enough to take a shot and then we could whoop him. He would snitch but nobody would do anything because he was such a tattler under most circumstances…and its true(atleast in the 90’s) they won’t help a kid who has a reputation as a tattler.

We laid off him by 5th grade. I personally apologized to him in high school when I thought we were having a moment talking about Ozzfest. He told me to go fuck myself as soon as I brought it up. It might’ve came off like I was trying to reminisce about it but i was legitimately apologizing lol.

we laid off him because we found a new fish who was such a spaz that it didn’t really seem like we were even bullies. He would piss everybody off so it wasn’t just us. He’s the type that would be getting bullied and then punch the person that is trying to help him. Which happened.

We eventually backed off him when the one kid that was supposed to be his friend led a brutal roast of him on a camping trip embarrassing him in front of the class. I saw how devastating it was for him and felt bad…and then it was sad that despite the fact that we weren’t friends and we were his bullies. He invited me and a couple of my friends to his birthday party. I went. We saw Men in Black.

by the time I got into Jr High the social dynamics changed dramatically and all of a sudden your friendships from grade school don’t carry over. You can be like me who was one of the popular kids in elementary school to starting jr high with limited friends.

People actually start talking shit to you. I was never bullied but I nevertheless felt humbled when I went from friends with everybody to people you’ve known your entire life all of a sudden acting like they don’t know you after just a month or two transition from elementary to jr high.

That stupid confidence and comfort in groups goes away very quickly. I was never somebody’s personal bully. I would’ve never picked on anybody if it was just me…because as soon as it was just me, I had no desire to pick on anybody no matter how big of a douche I thought they were. No matter how weak. Not because I was afraid. Nobody messed with me. I was one of the bigger kids but I learned that wasn’t who I was. I actually felt guilty about that stuff. I always did…but when other people are laughing with you it just feels okay. I’m not susceptible to getting caught up with groups anymore. I just didn’t experience being a loner until I started Jr High.

 

[Trabaho]

I'm from a really small city. Really small. Everyone knows everyone. A funny moment I remeber ready to share. This one younger kid, would say dumb things to me when we walked past in the street. I don't remeber what. One day I got agressive and spit in his face like 10 times. Lmao I just remeber this. I showered his face with my spit. He didn't do anything to defend himself. I didn't even think of his later. We also became good friends at some point years later. Went out to clubs together.

LOL Herzegowina was funny sometimes.

Or my very first fight. I was like 8. My little clique of friends from school, we were at the playground playing catch. Now one of us who is more nerdy and apsolutely non violent. He got into it with the smallest one from us but the most brutal. This small Russian kid would throw hard barges of punches at other kids straight to their face if he got into a fight.

Long story short they argued about if catch counts cause he only touched his clothes. So Russian friend was right, it wasn't fair. He did catch him.

I got inbetween and he punched me like with a voley of 5 punches. My vision went black from each of them. I headlocked him into the ground. We wrestles for a few moments. Stood up, looked at each other and said " what, what, what" at each other. He lived by that playground and went home. The rest of the boys so probably me and 3 more went home my direction with me.

When I was home my mom freaked out and said what did he hit you with. Cause I had a swelling on one side of my Tempel. I was like 8. I did not feel pain cause adrenaline or so. I did not feel hurt.

So Basical the boy was a pretty good boxer. I would say that prepared me to one day be decent at training.

As a kid I would not punch.

I got into it with another Russian. Elementary school too. In class I walked by his table and dropped his backpack, unintentionally . He got up and punched me in the eye. I said see you after school. After school we were there to fight, I headlocked him while he was trying to punch me but couldn't. I squeezed his neck. Teacher came by, we stopped, he said apologize to each other. We said sorry and both got emotional and started crying a bit. Lmao. Well we were like 7 or 9.

 

[Spounman]

 

[Long Dark Blues]

I was bullied for being a big fat kid. I suffered pretty bad emotional and mental distress from being bullied.

Until I realized I could use my height and weight to my advantage.

Then I became the bully and inflicted physical pain upon those that trespassed against me. I hurt them pretty damn bad, way worse than they hurt me.

 

[HHJ]

No. If I bullied kids at school and my dad found out about it,he would have given me the business.

 

[Crazy Librarian]

Oh my God I freakin laughed. I shouldn't have. I always had a awful mouth too. But it was always towards my brother.

I always felt anger whenever I remember this girl. She is just always feel like giving her damn opinion about something. And to make matters worse, this girls is not even pretty. I have watched a lot of films about this type of girl, whether it's Hollywood or Asian films, and the girls is always pretty.

But this girl has a huge booobs. Fucking huuuuugeee. Like pornstar huge, but natural. And she has a really nice smooth white skin. Golly, I would love doing the deed with her, but I might have to put some pillow on her face.

 

[Trabaho]

One funny thing popped into my mind. In elementary school in Germany. We had this Italian kid who would bully a weak German kid. One day that kids grandmother appeared in front of the school and slapped the Bully. Lol. Funny ain't it.

To not get it confused in Herzegowina elementary school is 8 years. So I was 4 in Germany and 5-8 in Herzegowina.

 

[pugilistico]

Got bullied a lot as a kid. I was a bully to a couple kids in high school. It's something I would never do now and I would tell my younger self not to get involved with that kind of shit, but I don't necessarily feel guilty about it. The kids I bullied weren't very nice either. The system failed all of us.

 

[Crazy Librarian]

I see what you did. Very misc of you...

Technically speaking, I was taller but he was more compact.

Hahaha. I know you would take it well. I enjoy interacting with you man, your urban legend thread is awesome.

 

[Midnighter]

I didn't start bullying schoolchildren until I was an adult.

 

[Crazy Librarian]

I'm from a really small city. Really small. Everyone knows everyone. A funny moment I remeber ready to share. This one younger kid, would say dumb things to me when we walked past in the street. I don't remeber what. One day I got agressive and spit in his face like 10 times. Lmao I just remeber this. I showered his face with my spit. He didn't do anything to defend himself. I didn't even think of his later. We also became good friends at some point years later. Went out to clubs together.

LOL Herzegowina was funny sometimes.

Or my very first fight. I was like 8. My little clique of friends from school, we were at the playground playing catch. Now one of us who is more nerdy and apsolutely non violent. He got into it with the smallest one from us but the most brutal. This small Russian kid would throw hard barges of punches at other kids straight to their face if he got into a fight.

Long story short they argued about if catch counts cause he only touched his clothes. So Russian friend was right, it wasn't fair. He did catch him.

I got inbetween and he punched me like with a voley of 5 punches. My vision went black from each of them. I headlocked him into the ground. We wrestles for a few moments. Stood up, looked at each other and said " what, what, what" at each other. He lived by that playground and went home. The rest of the boys so probably me and 3 more went home my direction with me.

When I was home my mom freaked out and said what did he hit you with. Cause I had a swelling on one side of my Tempel. I was like 8. I did not feel pain cause adrenaline or so. I did not feel hurt.

So Basical the boy was a pretty good boxer. I would say that prepared me to one day be decent at training.

As a kid I would not punch.

I got into it with another Russian. Elementary school too. In class I walked by his table and dropped his backpack, unintentionally . He got up and punched me in the eye. I said see you after school. After school we were there to fight, I headlocked him while he was trying to punch me but couldn't. I squeezed his neck. Teacher came by, we stopped, he said apologize to each other. We said sorry and both got emotional and started crying a bit. Lmao. Well we were like 7 or 9.

Is Herzegovina a country?? I never heard of it haha. You from there or Germany my friend? Is it close together? I saw your other post saying you were in Germany.


HAHAHA, I laughed when I see you talked about lil guy in your group who is brutal. When I was in elementary I also was pretty brutal if I got into fights. We fight a lot in elementary school. There is always fight everyday. Kids would cheer one another hahahah. One day this fat ass big kid punch me out of nowhere. I got so angry to the point of tears and I try to fight him. I can't control my tears, if I get so angry tears would always roll down my eyes, even until this day. He wasn't the strongest but a lot of people is scared of him because of his size.

I try to jump on his back, and then I start punching him on the back of the head, his neck, and also behind his shoulder area. HAhaha, I don't even know how I did Charles Oliveira style, it was all instinct. Got pretty brutal and he cried so much and shout, and one of the teacher separate us.

 

[preppypyro]

I watched a group of kids throw apples at this one handicapped kid when I was in grade 8 or 9 and couldn't believe how everyone thought it was so funny.

After that I started bullying the bullies. I was 6'3 and 200 lbs back then and didn't give a shit about getting hurt or anything, and there were many times I got in over my head with bullies, luckily I never really got hurt and luckily I never seriously hurt anyone else besides a fat lip or black eye.

No regrets though, I can't stand bullies. I still stand up to them for others, though it never comes to fists anymore.

 

[ralphc1]

I beat the bully up badly. He hit me once and I went crazy on him. He ran into a lumberyard and I caught him. I was slamming his head into a pile of lumber when two of the workers pulled me off of him. I probably would have killed him if they hadn't. I seem very mild mannered but I just have a very long fuse with a huge explosion at the end. Since that time, I try to hold back as much as possible.

 

[Trabaho]

I beat the bully up badly. He hit me once and I went crazy on him. He ran into a lumberyard and I caught him. I was slamming his head into a pile of lumber when two of the workers pulled me off of him. I probably would have killed him if they hadn't. I seem very mild mannered but I just have a very long fuse with a huge explosion at the end. Since that time, I try to hold back as much as possible.

Is it bad that I chuckled at this.

Is Herzegovina a country?? I never heard of it haha. You from there or Germany my friend? Is it close together? I saw your other post saying you were in Germany.


HAHAHA, I laughed when I see you talked about lil guy in your group who is brutal. When I was in elementary I also was pretty brutal if I got into fights. We fight a lot in elementary school. There is always fight everyday. Kids would cheer one another hahahah. One day this fat ass big kid punch me out of nowhere. I got so angry to the point of tears and I try to fight him. I can't control my tears, if I get so angry tears would always roll down my eyes, even until this day. He wasn't the strongest but a lot of people is scared of him because of his size.

I try to jump on his back, and then I start punching him on the back of the head, his neck, and also behind his shoulder area. HAhaha, I don't even know how I did Charles Oliveira style, it was all instinct. Got pretty brutal and he cried so much and shout, and one of the teacher separate us.

Bosnia and Herzegowina is the full name of the country. I lived and live in both Germany and Herzegowina. It is very close, a less then two hour flight to Croatia then some miles to Herzegowina.

Are you from Asia ? Which country ?

 

[StocktonMuhfuh]

I did both but was bullied way more than I bullied. I like to gloss over in my mind the times that I bullied people... because I know how that feels. I know what I did to them.

 

[Law Talkin’ Guy]

Yes, a few, and I’ve regretted it for nearly 20 years. It was mostly just going along with the crowd, like if my buddies were teasing or hurting a kid I would just join in because… peer pressure?

I wish I could go back and tell 10 year old me to just be kind to everyone and either leave those kids alone, or better yet, stand up to my friends to stop them from bullying too.

 

[zapataxiv]

yes sir!

im half chicano half white.
my dad lived in the barrio and my mom married a rich dude and lived in the burbs. I lived weekends with my dad and school days with my mom. because the schools were much better in the burbs they decided on that split.

it was pretty confusing at first. i never felt like i fit in in the burbs school and got bullied alot. then the immigration wave from the mid 90's hit and the school in the burbs became about half 1st gen immigrant kids. then it became more about bullying the immigrant kids vs native born kids. i felt i belonged because the kids who were bullying me suddenly had me on tgheir side to bully the new kids.
i remember because one day all the kids from the american side were calling the new kids 'beaners' and trying to start a big fight. I was shouting it too. then the head teacher said " you are a beaner!" and then all the kids turned on me again. was a pretty awkward convo with my dad i asked him if i really was a beaner... LOL

in high school i cooled off on bullying was too much into training and partying.

 

[Bobby00]

Yes i have been bullied and i have bullied others and i also defended some getting bullied. Nothing major really. When i went to shool it was pretty normal. Usually, bigger kids bully smaller kids and the smaller kids will start to bully once they are not the weakest anymore.

What stuck out to me is how little teachers cared. Our teacher was also our gym teacher and he would just leave gym class dont know where he always went. What did he think was gonna happen to leave kids 1 hour to their own devices. Years later he got busted for spying on the girls who had gym separately with cameras. Creepy to think about.

I saw a kid 5 years later i bullied in the supermarket. We were both grown ups and as soon as he saw me he hid behind toilet paper. Here he was this grown young men and just the sight of me made him scared. That was probably the first time i felt bad about it. Here he was a grown young man still remembering me and making him hide behind toilet paper. I never thought he would remember me and even if i wouldnt expect him to fear me. I got bullied too but i guess i had a easier time to let that go. Later on i even became friends with some kids that bullied me but it just doesnt affect everyone the same.