Did you bully kids at school ?

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If you have what are the reasons and do you regret it ? Did you apologize ?

If you were bullied you can post about that too.

I personally only got bullied for 1 year on the way to school by kids who were way older. One day I punched one of them and they stopped. I got bullied verbally and only slightly phisically, didn't get hit or anything.

I never bullied noone. Did something wrong yes, but regulary bullied definitely no. I didn't bully period. Did do a mistake here and there.

Discuss if you feel comfortable with the topic.
 
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Yeah, I bullied teammates on my sports teams, particularly football.

I grew up in the 80's and 90's. That was sorta the culture back then. In my defense, I bullied bullies. My main reasoning was that I liked putting people in their place, and that was a place it was allowed. I stopped growing in 8th grade, so by the time I was playing varsity football, I wasn't able to fuck everyone up anymore, and I mellowed out after being humbled a bit. I was a 5'9" 170lb defensive back/running back my senior year, but when I was in 8th grade, I was 5'9" 150lbs and already pretty built for a kid that age. Most of the bigger kids were just fat fucks at that age, so I got off on hurting them. I did the same shit in wrestling, but not nearly as bad, as wrestling isn't nearly as rough of a sport as football despite it being a much harder sport both mentally and physically.
 
I had a horrible evil friend turned enemy and he turned everyone against me through lies and rumors. I then had a lot of rage and took it on a new friend who was meek but legit could have kicked the shit out of me but he did not. 4 years later I ran in to him we said hello and what have you. He was super nice but I felt sick to my stomach about how I treated him.

As he was leaving, I SPRINTED towards him and I apologized for all the shit I said and did. I let him know if there is ever anything he needs, I will aways be there for him. He just said in a causal non-chalant way did a quick pad on the back and said "its all good" and then 3 years later, a mutual friend ran in to me and he gave my number to him and he pranked me HARD on the phone. Afterwards us 3 hung out for short period of time like it was high school. Our mutual friend mentioned how appreciative he was for the apology. He didnt show it on the surface but it meant alot.

Trust me, its never too late to apologize. Sometimes even a simple acknowledgement of wrong doing can really help someone who got bullied find an inner peace that they may have not realized they needed and if you can, try to something kind for them to go above and beyond an apology to truly redeem the past actions. Nothing too crazy but do something thoughtful. Evil friend never apologized but was nice last time I saw him. Somedays I feel bitter but its way worse if you wrong someone and never reach out. Being the villain is much worse than being a victim. The guilt is INSANE if you are not a psychopath or sadist.
 
Never bullied anyone, at least not that I know of or intentionally. Was the anti-bully in high-school. Among a few other instances.... beat the shit out of some dudes that bullied some autistic kids, almost got expelled, and would do it again any day. Constantly saved some of the nicer guys and gals in my school from getting into situations that would ruin their future. I was like the only nerdy kid who was 220+lbs in my high school who lifted and trained. From what other people tell me, the only time they didn't see me with a book in hand sitting in the corner was when someone needed some help.

With that being said, wouldn't recommend my methods or psyche to others. School is a lot different now from what my younger family members tell me.
 
Ogata said:
I had a horrible evil friend turned enemy and he turned everyone against me through lies and rumors. I then had a lot of rage and took it on a new friend who was meek but legit could have kicked the shit out of me but he did not. 4 years later I ran in to him we said hello and what have you. He was super nice but I felt sick to my stomach about how I treated him.

As he was leaving, I SPRINTED towards him and I apologized for all the shit I said and did. I let him know if there is ever anything he needs, I will aways be there for him. He just said in a causal non-chalant way did a quick pad on the back and said "its all good" and then 3 years later, a mutual friend ran in to me and he gave my number to him and he pranked me HARD on the phone. Afterwards us 3 hung out for short period of time like it was high school. Our mutual friend mentioned how appreciative he was for the apology. He didnt show it on the surface but it meant alot.

Trust me, its never too late to apologize. Sometimes even a simple acknowledgement of wrong doing can really help someone who got bullied find an inner peace that they may have not realized they needed and if you can, try to something kind for them to go above and beyond an apology to truly redeem the past actions. Nothing too crazy but do something thoughtful. Evil friend never apologized but was nice last time I saw him. Somedays I feel bitter but its way worse if you wrong someone and never reach out. Being the villain is much worse than being a victim. The guilt is INSANE if you are not a psychopath or sadist.
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I also have an experience of getting bullied by someone I once considered friend. I knew he was depressed so I try to be understanding to him. Day after day he kept getting worse. I could have punched him in the face because he was very short and very weak, but I let him be. A few years later I met him again, I tried to be nice to him but deep down I said, "If this weak sob try anything funny, I will give him a lesson this time."

To my surprised, after we talked and said bye, he ran up to me and apologize. I remember seeing his cringe inducing face trying to contain his tears, so I forgave him. I pad him in the back and we go our separate ways.
 
Crazy Librarian said:
I also have an experience of getting bullied by someone I once considered friend. I knew he was depressed so I try to be understanding to him. Day after day he kept getting worse. I could have punched him in the face because he was very short and very weak, but I let him be. A few years later I met him again, I tried to be nice to him but deep down I said, "If this weak sob try anything funny, I will give him a lesson this time."

To my surprised, after we talked and said bye, he ran up to me and apologize. I remember seeing his cringe inducing face trying to contain his tears, so I forgave him. I pad him in the back and we go our separate ways.
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I see what you did. Very misc of you...

Technically speaking, I was taller but he was more compact.
 
I have been bullied, and I have become a bully in school. Not anything really crazy or physical, just talking shit hahaha. I'm pretty good at shit talking, sometimes the people I shit talked cried. I was a very bad person compared to now. I would say anything to hurt someone I don't like.

There was once a girl I truly hate because she likes to judge people and think very highly of herself. I knew her dad just recently died from heart attack while playing tennis or badminton. One day she was saying stuff about me in the class, and I said, "Did your dad get heart attack from constantly dealing with you?"

She cried and people around seems shocked, some looked at me in disgust, some looked at me smiling and proud of me for putting that bitch in her place. Never apologized or anything, I don't feel proud doing it, but she deserved it.
 
I never bullied anyone. I was bullied a bit in 7th grade (when I moved to a new school) but I beat up one of the kids doing it. On the plus side, the bullying stopped instantly. On the other hand, everyone thought I was a fucking psycho, so most other students just avoided me for the rest of middle school, and all the teachers treated me like scum.
 
Omegaboy13 said:
Never bullied anyone, at least not that I know of or intentionally. Was the anti-bully in high-school. Among a few other instances.... beat the shit out of some dudes that bullied some autistic kids, almost got expelled, and would do it again any day. Constantly saved some of the nicer guys and gals in my school from getting into situations that would ruin their future. I was like the only nerdy kid who was 220+lbs in my high school who lifted and trained. From what other people tell me, the only time they didn't see me with a book in hand sitting in the corner was when someone needed some help.

With that being said, wouldn't recommend my methods or psyche to others. School is a lot different now from what my younger family members tell me.
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Times have probably changed a lot. Back then in Herzegowina, I came back after the war, it was normal for kids to fight in the school yard. Teachers did not come and stop them. And all the kids always tried to get other kids to fight. And would circle around them and start shouting "battle, battle". Even push kids that got into some issue into each other for them to start to fight. Or the classic "this guy said he was stronger then you".
 
Nope bullied pretty relentlessly though. From about 2nd grade to 6th grade. I was just so quiet and meek, a natural target. In sixth grade I started getting bigger and angrier though. Next time a bully fucked with me, I just kinda grabbed him and threw him to the ground reflexively.

I remember standing over him, feeling bad and getting ready to apologize. But also thinking in the back of my head, holy shit when did I get that strong? Have I just been..... letting people push me around? You know what.... I think I'm done with that.

That guy was cool to me after that, and every time someone tried to bully me I would get really aggressive. Realized I'd had my ass kicked already, wasn't afraid of that. Was more afraid of walking around with my head down all day.
 
Hatorade said:
Yeah, I bullied teammates on my sports teams, particularly football.

I grew up in the 80's and 90's. That was sorta the culture back then. In my defense, I bullied bullies. My main reasoning was that I liked putting people in their place, and that was a place it was allowed. I stopped growing in 8th grade, so by the time I was playing varsity football, I wasn't able to fuck everyone up anymore, and I mellowed out after being humbled a bit. I was a 5'9" 170lb defensive back/running back my senior year, but when I was in 8th grade, I was 5'9" 150lbs and already pretty built for a kid that age. Most of the bigger kids were just fat fucks at that age, so I got off on hurting them. I did the same shit in wrestling, but not nearly as bad, as wrestling isn't nearly as rough of a sport as football despite it being a much harder sport both mentally and physically.
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Same here, I mostly bullied other kids on my HS sports teams, except I was a much bigger kid than you. I started varsity football as a freshman, which pissed off some juniors/seniors who bullied me which I then took out on them and other kids.

Definitely feel bad about it. I never bullied kids before my experience being “hazed” in HS football, and never did again afterwards. Something I’m not too proud of for sure.
 
Crazy Librarian said:
I have been bullied, and I have become a bully in school. Not anything really crazy or physical, just talking shit hahaha. I'm pretty good at shit talking, sometimes the people I shit talked cried. I was a very bad person compared to now. I would say anything to hurt someone I don't like.

There was once a girl I truly hate because she likes to judge people and think very highly of herself. I knew her dad just recently died from heart attack while playing tennis or badminton. One day she was saying stuff about me in the class, and I said, "Did your dad get heart attack from constantly dealing with you?"

She cried and people around seems shocked, some looked at me in disgust, some looked at me smiling and proud of me for putting that bitch in her place. Never apologized or anything, I don't feel proud doing it, but she deserved it.
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Oh my God I freakin laughed. I shouldn't have. I always had a awful mouth too. But it was always towards my brother.
 
Sort of bullied but didn't really last long. This dude was shorter than me but he was part of the black gang at school. He talked a good game and I didn't know shit about shit. After about a month of picking on my I told him " let's go box in the bathroom". We agreed to no face shots. In my mind I was ready to get my ass kicked but couldn't let this dude keep fucking with me. So we started punching each other. It didn't hurt as bad as I was expecting so I started putting some pressure on him and he ends up kicking me. I called him a pussy for kicking and we just stopped and went back to class. Back in the day the only manly was to fight was boxing so him kicking me was kinda a bitch move.
 
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