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The same way we enforce a lot of good habits. Culturally, socially, through traditions and norms. It's not like we leave people to their own devices when it comes to deciding what's right or wrong.
We quietly enforce people to not choose a path of crime, by making movies where the gangsters get killed at the end, and by denouncing acts of crime. Obviously, there are also laws that directly enforce people to avoid doing crime. I don't see why we shouldn't be able to quietly enforce people to get married and stay faithful to their wife or husband. But in case of marriage, laws are not necessarily needed to enforce that.
Or we could just do it like the Chinese, for whom their marriage partner is largely hand-picked. Not much freedom in that, but they're certainly keeping nearly 1,5 billion people quite stable in a society where there are much more men than women.
Not the path I'd choose, but it's something worth having a conversation about, I suppose.
Yeah, but here's the thing.
Society ALREADY enforces that via tax benefits, religious pressure, promotion of "traditional values", etc... Hell, the vast majority of the US is christian, and christianity absolutely enforces monogamy. Yet here we are.
You're honestly more spot on pointing at the internet as the reason we have such a casual sex culture these days, but he's pointing at the culture itself and the women involved. That's fucking stupid. And i'm not seeing how you're going to all of a sudden make women go for bums without forcing them to do it.