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Co-worker won't stop talking crap about her fiance and cheats. Would you get involved?

Contempt said:
They DO know him, they know his name, he brings them food. They know he's a good guy that's getting fucked over by this skank.

No, it's the behavior of someone that isn't a selfish asshole. He's nice enough to do favors for them and your response is "fuck him, I don't care"? Says a whole heap about the type of person you are buddy.
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Someone bringing food to your job every now and then isn't someone you know.

You don't know how they live. Period point fucking blank.
 
It depends. If you really think Gary is a nice guy and want to help him or you want to be petty and ruin her life.
 
Contempt said:
They DO know him, they know his name, he brings them food. They know he's a good guy that's getting fucked over by this skank.

No, it's the behavior of someone that isn't a selfish asshole. He's nice enough to do favors for them and your response is "fuck him, I don't care"? Says a whole heap about the type of person you are buddy.
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It's not fuck you I don't care, it's their personal life isn't my business.

Were he to be my friend, that would be different.

You're the jackass telling me that I don't care about people. Yet I'm the guy that everyone knows they can count on when they need a hand.

The most unassuming people live different lives than most other people might expect. It's not your place to put a cape on and "save" someone who you don't know shit about in such a personal fashion. There are few things more personal than the arrangement between spouses and strangers have no right to judge from the outside looking in. My examples are perfectly valid. Giving a mom outside of a grocery store a couple bucks isn't the same as getting a fucking burner to tell someone you think their soon to be wife is a slut. I actually know my neighbors so going to keep them company, bring them a plate and watch a basketball game with them is something I do. Shit Gary might be undercover from his family and that chick might be his beard. You have no clue.

If Gary needed someone to fix his garage door or lend him a generator during a storm, I'm there. And if I knew him and he were my friend, and I knew about their marriage, this would be totally different. But that's not the case.

High and mighty, you are. Good for you.

When you tell this guy, and nothing changes except that he mean mugs you when he comes in to drop off Panera for the crew, at least you'll be able to pat yourself on the back.
 
Fugazy said:
He ain't your fucking bro. You don't know about their lives and you have no business getting mixed up in someone else's just because you work with their spouse.

You guys sound like some lame ass women, you're supposed to be me. And legitimately, this is what the fuck is wrong with men today.

Again, eat the food, fuck that rat if you want, and go about your day. There nothing else to this one. If it troubles you so, then avoid them and don't eat the food.
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He’s bringing me food and coffee. Could tell her that you’ll tell her dude unless she does butt stuff with you then send pics to her guy I guess
 
cincymma79 said:
He’s bringing me food and coffee. Could tell her that you’ll tell her dude unless she does butt stuff with you then send pics to her guy I guess
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Butt stuff for the win

I think I mentioned to someone else, if you're so fucking compelled I could understand saying something to the chick. But even that is a stretch IMO. I'm the kind of person who'd just tell her I don't want to hear about it, or your personal life is none of my business.

Good luck trying to check a woman in a place thats gossipy and full of cunts. Whether right or wrong you're just asking to make your work life hell.
 
Fugazy said:
Someone bringing food to your job every now and then isn't someone you know.

You don't know how they live. Period point fucking blank.
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You think it's good to help strangers but not the good guy who brings them free food... but at the same time, "you don't know them it's none of your business".

You keep referring to it as a marriage, which it is not. Now is the time that a quick message could be used to save him from making the biggest mistake in his life and being taken for half of everything he has ever earned, but fuck him right?

Dude, your argument just keeps changing and moving around. As I said, try some logical or ethical consistency. You're someone that doesn't give a fuck about others, great, just own it.
 
One big tenet of "guy code" is to not snitch on a guy who is having an affair or a side chick. Does the same guy code courtesy extend to women?
 
Fugazy said:
It's not fuck you I don't care, it's their personal life isn't my business.

Were he to be my friend, that would be different.

You're the jackass telling me that I don't care about people. Yet I'm the guy that everyone knows they can count on when they need a hand.

The most unassuming people live different lives than most other people might expect. It's not your place to put a cape on and "save" someone who you don't know shit about in such a personal fashion. There are few things more personal than the arrangement between spouses and strangers have no right to judge from the outside looking in. My examples are perfectly valid. Giving a mom outside of a grocery store a couple bucks isn't the same as getting a fucking burner to tell someone you think their soon to be wife is a slut. I actually know my neighbors so going to keep them company, bring them a plate and watch a basketball game with them is something I do. Shit Gary might be undercover from his family and that chick might be his beard. You have no clue.

If Gary needed someone to fix his garage door or lend him a generator during a storm, I'm there. And if I knew him and he were my friend, and I knew about their marriage, this would be totally different. But that's not the case.

High and mighty, you are. Good for you.

When you tell this guy, and nothing changes except that he mean mugs you when he comes in to drop off Panera for the crew, at least you'll be able to pat yourself on the back.
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You used examples like changing a tire or keeping someone company as examples of when you should help out strangers, minor shit ...yet when the good guy who has been generous and given you free food is about to have his life destroyed by this whore, you don't care enough to even spend 2 minutes, sign up for a free email address and let this guy know about the massive mistake he would make by marrying this thot?

Yeah, you clearly don't give a crap about anyone else dude. If this shit was happening to me, I'd hope someone would spend the two fucking minutes to let me know ...but hey, I guess that is just too much effort for someone like you.
 
Contempt said:
You think it's good to help strangers but not the good guy who brings them free food... but at the same time, "you don't know them it's none of your business".

You keep referring to it as a marriage, which it is not. Now is the time that a quick message could be used to save him from making the biggest mistake in his life and being taken for half of everything he has ever earned, but fuck him right?

Dude, your argument just keeps changing and moving around. As I said, try some logical or ethical consistency. You're someone that doesn't give a fuck about others, great, just own it.
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My argument isn't moving around. So the fuck what I said wife, partner, fiancée, soon to be wife. Doesn't change a goddamn thing. My point is super clear. When I don't know people, I do not insert myself in their personal lives. You're pretending you can't wrap your head around it because you were raised to act like a female.

Their personal life is none of your business. You're desire to insert yourself in their home is borne out of your desire be a nosy know it all bitch. Leave that to the women, be a man instead.

Again, you don't know shit about their lives. He literally could be pimping her. He could be in the closet. She might have 3 boyfriends he knows about. He might have other trophy side pieces. You have no clue.
 
Alphaboy said:
One big tenet of "guy code" is to not snitch on a guy who is having an affair or a side chick. Does the same guy code courtesy extend to women?
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I detest cheating shitbags of either gender so that's a no from me.
 
Contempt said:
I detest cheating shitbags of either gender so that's a no from me.
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You'd tattle tell on a dude? Lol.

Sheeit, I ain't even mad at cha, but it's likely one of those things where the woman will eventually forgive him, they'll get back together, and now you have 2 enemies.
 
Fugazy said:
My argument isn't moving around. So the fuck what I said wife, partner, fiancée, soon to be wife. Doesn't change a goddamn thing. My point is super clear. When I don't know people, I do not insert myself in their personal lives. You're pretending you can't wrap your head around it because you were raised to act like a female.

Their personal life is none of your business. You're desire to insert yourself in their home is borne out of your desire be a nosy know it all bitch. Leave that to the women, be a man instead.

Again, you don't know shit about their lives. He literally could be pimping her. He could be in the closet. She might have 3 boyfriends he knows about. He might have other trophy side pieces. You have no clue.
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It would take you TWO MINUTES to send the dude a message and let him know what is going on but you are too much of a selfish bitch to care about anyone but yourself apparently.

As I said before, you're a dick... so what? Just own it and stop trying to come up with lame justifications about why you shouldn't help others.
 
Alphaboy said:
You'd tattle tell on a dude? Lol.

Sheeit, I ain't even mad at cha, but it's likely one of those things where the woman will eventually forgive him, they'll get back together, and now you have 2 enemies.
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Its called having ethics and a moral code.

Do I strike you as someone who much gives a crap if I make "enemies"? You have to give even the slightest fuck about someone before you care what they think of you.
 
Contempt said:
It would take you TWO MINUTES to send the dude a message and let him know what is going on but you are too much of a selfish bitch to care about anyone but yourself apparently.

As I said before, you're a dick... so what? Just own it and stop trying to come up with lame justifications about why you shouldn't help others.
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It doesn't matter how long it takes. How the fuck is that a justification for acting like a woman?

Would you suck a dick because it would take TWO MINUTES???

The fuck?
 
Alphaboy said:
Why no... no, you do not.
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He's not important enough to have enemies. Lmao.

He has a grandiose sense of self worth and follows a "moral code". In his head he's like Dexter, in reality he's a loser no one thinks about.
 
Fugazy said:
It doesn't matter how long it takes. How the fuck is that a justification for acting like a woman?

Would you suck a dick because it would take TWO MINUTES???

The fuck?
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Would I help someone else, especially if they were nice enough to bring me free food and try and make sure their life wasn't destroyed? Of course I would, I'm not an asshole.

I'll have to defer to your extensive experience in blowing dudes.
 
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