I know people devote years and sacrifice to reach these high levels. I don't expect to be a badass, I just get discouraged after I have a night like the bug hit by the windshield. I like hitting the mitts, like learning the footwork, combos etc. it's more the process and training I'm enjoying, the sparring has felt like I'm the fat kid in the dodge ball game.
That's the thing, though. You can learn quickly (quicker than everyone else) and take the fastlane if you just do it smartly. But you must be honest in evaluating yourself and patient with adding small but steady increments of improvement, and then there are moments where you can make giant leaps
without putting in massive time or misery. It's not all about pure TIME itself, it's
not like lifting weights (which actually IS like that). The nice thing is that you can skip very large plateaus that everyone else goes through if you just train more honestly than them. What are these things? I'll tell you (since no one else will)
1. Proper Technique/precise movement - no one focuses on improving/perfecting their technique early on. They figure "I've got a pretty ok punch, and it will get better with repetition/time." Instead of thinking like that, study what you are doing wrong and try to correct it. Ask what you're doing wrong (no coach will tell you in depth unless you ask). Fix it. Try it some more, fix it some more, make it more efficient (work better with less effort). Ask more. Go slow when learning technique, make sure your brain really grasps it. Don't just shadowbox as fast as you can like everyone else- they'll spend years and never get much faster or more fluid because they are forcing it too hard, staying coarse.
2. Footwork - almost nobody asks about this. Or works on it early (or ever!). Hmmmmm
3. Positioning/angles - same. Find out what you can,
not just from your coach
4. Tactical Understanding (related to positioning angles). You can read all about this. Champion boxers/trainers love to talk about this stuff in their books and even in interviews online. Seek it, play with it, etc.
I'm always amazed how many people at the gym, even fighters don't take advantage of this, having it out there for cheap or free.
There you go. No one wants to constantly learn about, tweak and improve the fundamentals early on, and even later on they don't spend nearly enough focus on it, so they waste their time (years) not getting better (maybe healthier, like boxercise). Most people are concerned with feeling/acting "powerful", like a badass, or flashy/showoffy. That stuff just holds them back and makes them suck all the more at sparring/fighting. Clean, fluid, technique (good execution) along with tactical understanding ruins everything else.