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About a year ago, I approached this girl on the street and got her number. I very rarely approach random girls like this anymore but this girl was physically my ideal type. I couldn't get over how pretty she was. I just had to talk to her. She was hesitant about giving me her number at first but we talked, and I really liked her vibe. When we parted she gave her number to me without me actually asking for it. This is the last time I've felt nervous and excited to talk to a girl and to feel ecstatic when I got her number.
We texted for a few days after that but when I tried to plan a date with her, she kept being evasive, saying that she was really busy with practice and performances. The conversation fizzled out and I figured she wasn't really interested in meeting me. I texted her about a month later to give it another chance. She enthusiastically texted me back and we talked for a bit. She said she was a bit less busy, but once again, she was still too busy to meet me. And once again, we stopped talking and I decided not to waste my time on this chick anymore.
Then about two weeks ago, which is about a year later from the last time we talked, she texted me. She said she thought about me and wondered how I was doing. Since then we've been texting nonstop for the past two weeks, and she gave me a good explanation why she was so unavailable last year. Although she's still busy, she wants to make time to meet me. But it's been difficult for her so we had a phone conversation that went well and lasted for quite awhile. I got a good vibe once again. But of course, things don't work out yet again. We set up a date for this week, which I was really looking forward to, but a few days before the date, she said she was really sorry but has to postpone it because her parents suddenly planned a family trip which she was pressured to attend.
Now I can understand her a bit because I know other people who've had to change plans because their parents suddenly pressured them into doing shit they don't want to do (not a rarity in this culture), so I don't think it's complete bullshit. I told her that we can meet the week after when she comes back, but she says she's going to be really busy again. But she will try she says.
I'm disappointed to say the least. If I'm being honest maybe it was just her looks that got me excited. I'm not asking for advice here as it's pretty clear I need to stop wasting my time with this girl. But it makes me wonder why the fuck she would even hit up a guy she met once and hasn't talked to in a year, especially considering how busy she is. Then she only gives me empty promises of meeting. I assume I'm not the only guy she's doing this too. Is it for validation? Keeping options open? And I definitely don't buy that she's busy as she says she is.
As a man I wouldn't hit up a girl like this unless it to get laid. What does a woman get from this?
Cliffs:
1. got a girl's number a year ago
2. didn't actually meet
3. She texted me out of the blue and we've been talking
4. But she is still "too busy" to meet up
5. Then why text me?
We texted for a few days after that but when I tried to plan a date with her, she kept being evasive, saying that she was really busy with practice and performances. The conversation fizzled out and I figured she wasn't really interested in meeting me. I texted her about a month later to give it another chance. She enthusiastically texted me back and we talked for a bit. She said she was a bit less busy, but once again, she was still too busy to meet me. And once again, we stopped talking and I decided not to waste my time on this chick anymore.
Then about two weeks ago, which is about a year later from the last time we talked, she texted me. She said she thought about me and wondered how I was doing. Since then we've been texting nonstop for the past two weeks, and she gave me a good explanation why she was so unavailable last year. Although she's still busy, she wants to make time to meet me. But it's been difficult for her so we had a phone conversation that went well and lasted for quite awhile. I got a good vibe once again. But of course, things don't work out yet again. We set up a date for this week, which I was really looking forward to, but a few days before the date, she said she was really sorry but has to postpone it because her parents suddenly planned a family trip which she was pressured to attend.
Now I can understand her a bit because I know other people who've had to change plans because their parents suddenly pressured them into doing shit they don't want to do (not a rarity in this culture), so I don't think it's complete bullshit. I told her that we can meet the week after when she comes back, but she says she's going to be really busy again. But she will try she says.
I'm disappointed to say the least. If I'm being honest maybe it was just her looks that got me excited. I'm not asking for advice here as it's pretty clear I need to stop wasting my time with this girl. But it makes me wonder why the fuck she would even hit up a guy she met once and hasn't talked to in a year, especially considering how busy she is. Then she only gives me empty promises of meeting. I assume I'm not the only guy she's doing this too. Is it for validation? Keeping options open? And I definitely don't buy that she's busy as she says she is.
As a man I wouldn't hit up a girl like this unless it to get laid. What does a woman get from this?
Cliffs:
1. got a girl's number a year ago
2. didn't actually meet
3. She texted me out of the blue and we've been talking
4. But she is still "too busy" to meet up
5. Then why text me?
