At what point in your life, did you "grow up?"

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What point in your life, which event, would you consider the turning point and that you thought yourself as grown up?

I don't know exactly how old I was, but I'd say I was around 9 years old. I had a close group of friends when I was little. One of them was this kid who we called "Gart." He was the tallest of us all. His house was right behind ours. Every single afternoon, we would all get together and play random games like hide and seek, cops and robbers, etc..

We were at a pool hall one afternoon. We all left to go to my house except for Gart.

Then we heard that someone got run over by a truck. We all went back to the same street the pool hall was in. We saw the truck and a whole bunch of people gathered and I can remember it like it happened yesterday, though this happened almost 30 years ago. My friend Gart was on the street, with his insides spread all over the road. The upper half of his body, from his chest up, was perfect, like he was just laying there sleeping in the middle of the street. Everything below that was torn apart.

From that moment on, the invincibility factor I had was instantly gone. Before that time, I thought nothing bad could happen to me. I was "special." After that event, I knew anything could happen to anyone.

When the news came to my house about the accident, I remember the sick feeling I got and that I had some kind of premonition that the person that was run over was my friend.

We were all in a daze for a long time. This was our best friend. We grew up with him. He was a great person. Even then, part of me was "wishing" that it had been me instead of him.
 
When the news came to my house about the accident, I remember the sick feeling I got and that I had some kind of premonition that the person that was run over was my friend.

It’s weird you said that. A few years ago, my wife was watching tv while I was doing something on the computer and I overheard a news story about a Cessna colliding with a Sea Fury in mid air. My best friend since childhood was a pilot. He flew Cessnas and was into WWII war planes. I just had a really bad feeling about it.

The next day at work, his brother called me and told me he was dead, and that he had crashed his plane into another. It was him they were talking about in the news story.
 
When I got my second gun and slept with it under my pillow.

Then I started feeling like a big boy.
 
I haven't grown up yet, and I hope I never do.

Sure I'm an adult and I now have a job, family, responsibilities, and all that grown up stuff, but I'm still a kid at heart.
 
Happened about a month ago.

I don't wanna talk about it.
 
Being diagnosed with ulcerative colitis at 18. It was hell for a good 7 years.
 
When I got my second gun and slept with it under my pillow.

Then I started feeling like a big boy.

You not only have a gun, but you have a SECOND gun? A tool invented for the sole purpose of KILLING humans? And you keep it under your pillow? That's pretty paranoid, bro. You need to get some psychiatric help.

Everyone has a phone now. Why not just dial 911 when you need help?
 
When I had kids aged 34.

You're not a man until you've had kids. In most tribes in Afghanistan you only get a man's name when you have a son, then your name becomes Abu (insert son's name).
 
You not only have a gun, but you have a SECOND gun? A tool invented for the sole purpose of KILLING humans? And you keep it under your pillow? That's pretty paranoid, bro. You need to get some psychiatric help.

Everyone has a phone now. Why not just dial 911 when you need help?

By the time the law gets to my farm, my cattle would get pillaged.
 
Probably when I had kids. Every now and then I really just want to go back to being the old me. Maybe one day when the kids are grown.
 
Seven years after I finally grew.
 
When I had kids aged 34.

You're not a man until you've had kids. In most tribes in Afghanistan you only get a man's name when you have a son, then your name becomes Abu (insert son's name).
When I had kids aged 34.

You're not a man until you've had kids. In most tribes in Afghanistan you only get a man's name when you have a son, then your name becomes Abu (insert son's name).

So if you homo you can't be a man?
 
So if you homo you can't be a man?

Over there homosexuals will likely have a family anyway. Just lie back and think of King and country.

Edit, but no. Not without some serious effort and life experience.
 
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