Well just found out that a girl im going to ask out trains in jiujitsu. and she is a 4 stripe yellow belt. where as me, im still gunning for my first stripe on my white belt. anyway, where we are at, in jiu jitsu doesnt matter. My question is, does anyone here train with their gf, wife or with their partner? does it have and positives what are they, what are the negatives to go along with it?