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Havent read the thread but if shes "straining not to look at you" shes probably not interested?
Commenting on something we have in common that we are experiencing in the moment is a lame observation?
Should I have taken a zucchini and said mine is bigger?
Here’s the goat grocery store pick up line.....
When you find a hottie picking out cucumbers, you stand next her and also pick out random ones. You wait until she picks one up to inspect it and you smoothly say “mines bigger”
It’s a sure thing
Lol, yes! That is much funnier, it’s a high risk high reward move but if she thinks you’re hot that’s a marriage story right there.. or maybe jail time
Here’s the goat grocery store pick up line.....
When you find a hottie picking out cucumbers, you stand next her and also pick out random ones. You wait until she picks one up to inspect it and you smoothly say “mines bigger”
It’s a sure thing
Listen,
If a woman goes out of her way to not make eye contact she isn't interested. Move on to someone else.
Women are MASTERS of avoiding eye contact with men they are not interested in.
The positive side of that is if a woman makes eye contact with you multiple times she undoubtedly is interested and wants you to make an approach.
@IIIIIIII @Horse Style
I can confirm that you are both right.
The first girl chose me. She came into my orbit and was hovering close. She didn't try to leave during our exchange, but she didn't look at me either, so I got mixed signals. It showed interest, but also insecurity.
I haven't seen the woman in the OP since, but I have seen another one that is an absolute stunner. I think she is Italian and is probably even more beautiful than the other one. Medium height, yellow eyes, brownish/blondish hair, lightly tanned skin, always wears active wear and she has an hour glass shape.
The problem is the second girl is really shy. Today I said "how are you?" and she froze up, looked away, and hesitated before answering. We locked eyes, but she broke contact first and didn't stick around because she was blocking the grocery lane. It is like she has to summon all of her courage to look me in the eyes. I was hoping to run into her again, but she zipped out of there.
So for girls like that, they are shy, but structured. They usually take a lot more work and patience to make them feel comfortable around you.
You can't sweat them in a public place, because they will reject you; even if they like you. Their anxiety triggers a flighty response.
You have to play it cool so that you are approachable, and she can build up her confidence and attraction for you. That's when you make a to ask her out.
Also, you don't want to wait too long to make a move, because it may be their day off or something and you may not see them again. It is important not to hesitate when the opportunity presents itself.
I am most likely going to see the second girl again.
"Plant the seed, wait until it grows into a plant, and then you f*ck the plant."
What I am talking about is when a woman is trying not to look.
Dude naw. These women are now avoiding this store to avoid running into you. I'm telling you this as a bro.
Dude naw. These women are now avoiding this store to avoid running into you. I'm telling you this as a bro.
"Anyways, I took that as not having a high level of interest, and carried on with my shopping. I went down the rest of the aisle (checked the meats, picked up different cheeses, wraps), and swung back down the next aisle in the fruit section. I looked over, and she was still looking for an orange pepper."
Dude if it takes her like 15 minutes to pick an orange pepper out of a bin of orange peppers that's a hard fucking pass. How's she going to make actual decisions in life? It probably takes her like 3 hours to get dressed in the morning. Say hello to being late for every fucking event you ever go to. Nah bro you gotta move on.