When she strains to not look at you

[Phlog]

She was trying to be civil so you wouldn't hate rape her and signal sexual disinterest enough that you wouldn't rape her.

 

[Davem10]

Fucking primate level love story

Chimp A offers Chimp B food

Chimp B rejects

Chimp A goes off but leers from a distance

Think how differently things could have went if you offered her an orange pepper first instead of a yellow one. You could have been banging her all night. A god damn yellow pepper, what were you thinking man !

 

[Horse Style]

This sounds like some shit tbh.

People talk to me frequently enough when I’m in stores. But I couldn’t tell you what any of them looked like or what they said because honestly who cares enough to remember? And I’m most often in the produce section getting kale for my rabbits.

Let a dude come up a month later and act like I remember what he said to me about a bundle of kale. Lmao ain’t happening. And if he remembered I might think he’s a fucking weirdo. Nevermind him repeatedly doing that? Prolly a serial killer that’s eyeing me. Brb, changing markets s:

Did you mean to quote @cooks1 because he is the on advocating waiting to ask her name and waiting for "special events" to ask them out

 

[Thai Otoshi]

Cute little story you created but your "long-game strategy" comes straight out a corny romantic comedy and it's terrible advice for reality.

Not to mention you call something "produce section pull" like it's some mystical task when it's just talking to a woman you met in public and asking for a number. It doesn't matter where it happens, whether it's the produce section or out on the street.

It's fine if you stick to that goofy TV movie "long game plan" but don't offer that horse shit to someone who wants advice

Thank you, the overly analytical shit in this thread is driving me insane.

 

[Kardashians]

Did you mean to quote @cooks1 because he is the on advocating waiting to ask her name and waiting for "special events" to ask them out

I can’t risk quoting him. He might notice me then stalk me for three years. I don’t want to find out what he does after that

 

[SaucyJack]

Reminds me of this friend of mine who goes out of his way to not look at me every time I see him. We’ll be sitting down having a conversation and he seriously will never make eye contact. One time I called him out on it and outright told him, “Hector, look at me,” but he still didn’t. He’s weird.

 

[cooks1]

I can’t risk quoting him. He might notice me then stalk me for three years. I don’t want to find out what he does after that

LOL- Now that's funny. What are you doing for lunch next October?

 

[mushishi]

You smelled like shit.

 

[Horse Style]

I disagree. Settings Matter. There are a lot of settings where it is insanely rare to see people asking for phone numbers or asking them out on dates. For a variety of reasons. Either because it's awkward, other people are in proximity (which can effect the outcome) or perhaps becasue the odds of success are not that high.

Believe what you will about I have written. I am all for a person making a move whenever it suits them provided they are genuinely interested in a person.

It's interesting that you are mocking my 'produce pull' reference as some kind of mystical task. Because I think your anytime, anywhere, circumstances be damned, perspective is indicative of someone who has spent a little too much time believing porn movie plots and reading Penthouse Forum stories.

But Hey, if it's working out for you- Keep it up.

My approach is indicative of a person who lives in reality and actually interacts with women. Getting a number isn't something significant. You talk to her, build rapport, make her laugh and get the number.

The number is just something to keep in contact and arrange a meet-up at a later time. It doesn't need you to analyze your surroundings, what she's wearing, the time of day or the position of Venus in relation to the moon.

No woman is getting moist anticipating a guy asking for her number unless the guy is some heart throb celebrity.

 

[Davem10]

Reminds me of this friend of mine who goes out of his way to not look at me every time I see him. We’ll be sitting down having a conversation and he seriously will never make eye contact. One time I called him out on it and outright told him, “Hector, look at me,” but he still didn’t. He’s weird.

Hector is banging your gf

 

[Horse Style]

I can’t risk quoting him. He might notice me then stalk me for three years. I don’t want to find out what he does after that

He'll only ask for your name after three years. It'll be another 5 years before he asks you out and only if it's during a full moon.

 

[cooks1]

He'll only ask for your name after three years. It'll be another 5 years before he asks you out and only if it's during a full moon.

You fool. It's February. You don't ask women out on full moons before the Summer Solstice. It's simply not done.

 

[Brother Numsi]

She wasn't interested in you bud. That's a harsh reality but it's one you have to accept. You most likely didn't do anything wrong but it is what it is.

The eyes are the biggest indicator of interest when it comes to women because they never lie. My old roommate's girl and I would have awkward stare downs all the time. I remember I was washing my hands with the bathroom door open and she walked by looking at me so I stared right back. She stopped and turned all the way around and we never broke eye contact. Keep in mind we had been around each other countless times so it wasn't like we were two complete weirdos. I was feeling her and I'm pretty sure she was feeling me. I was in my physical prime and she was tall and hot as hell. But I never crossed the line given that was my homeboy's girl.

Obviously, there are some situations were a woman can make eye contact and not be interested. Like if you are causing a scene or if they've seen you around before. Some cases a woman might be staring at you and then look away when you make eye contact. That'd could be an indicator, too but not always. Whenever I wear sunglasses outside I'll catch a few women staring at me but not in a flirty way. I'm guessing it's because they can't see what my eyes are looking at so it doesn't feel as awkward to stare at my face.

Anyway, thought I'd share that with you. Good chance you may see her again and she might make eye contact and smile. But honestly, you probably dodged a bullet. A very attractive bullet but still.

 

[Eazy123]

That’s never happened to me. Usually women in the grocery store strain just to blow me.

Hey now...Those 80 year old women in the buy 2 get one free prune section can't just get on their knees in two seconds. It takes a lotta work on their part

Jk

 

[CerebralKnievel]

You've never encountered this? It is the standard of all egotistical yuppie women. It is one move in their arsenal amongst the obsessively talking on cellphone and wearing sunglasses at all times to avoid contact.

 

[DoomPatrol]

Anybody experience this?

I experienced this yesterday. I was in the grocery store, and saw this stunning woman. Long dark hair, medium height, tight waist with T&A ratio that could be in the New Sherdog Thick Girls Thread V1: Está Gruesa! thread. Just my type.

I was over by the bell peppers, and she walked up right next to me as I was tying up my bag. I put my peppers in my cart that was nearby, and went back to spark up a conversation. I started off with saying how all peppers seemed soft, and she agreed.

I started looking through the peppers with her to find the right one. I was saying how the best ones were at the bottom since they try and put the older ones on top. I found one and offered it, but it was a yellow pepper and she wanted an orange one. We were totally up in each other's space, seemed to be comfortable, and had a seamless rapport, but the weird thing was that she never made eye contact.

Anyways, I took that as not having a high level of interest, and carried on with my shopping. I went down the rest of the aisle (checked the meats, picked up different cheeses, wraps), and swung back down the next aisle in the fruit section. I looked over, and she was still looking for an orange pepper.

So, anyways, I work my way through the fruit section and she comes down the aisle. First time I had a look at her face. She was beautiful. I was hoping she would make eye contact so I could ask her if she found the right one, but she didn't. In fact, I could feel her straining not to look.



What's up with that? I think she was single, because she had a basket and didn't have any problems being next to me. She wasn't turned off, at least I didn't sense that.

Help me to understand this, because I might see her again, and I want to get to know her.

Ever think she was just trying to be nice and not have some awkward confrontation while grocery shopping? Women literally have to worry about how a guy will react when they turn him down. All any really good looking girl and they'll tell you that it's not always a reasonable reaction. Guys get insulted and act out sometimes and it scares them, so they often do what they can to passively say fuck off without worrying about getting kidnapped on the way to their car.

Just something to think about. Maybe she was playing some passive ask her out game.

Or maybe she just wanted a bell pepper without your creeper hands rubbing cum all over it.

 

[Bob Gray]

Not sure how much stock you should be placing in your psychic abilities.

 

[IIIIIIII]

My approach is indicative of a person who lives in reality and actually interacts with women. Getting a number isn't something significant. You talk to her, build rapport, make her laugh and get the number.

The number is just something to keep in contact and arrange a meet-up at a later time. It doesn't need you to analyze your surroundings, what she's wearing, the time of day or the position of Venus in relation to the moon.

No woman is getting moist anticipating a guy asking for her number unless the guy is some heart throb celebrity.

i take the metro to work every day. usually, most people are on their phones minding their own business, and it's dead silent. are you telling me that you think a woman you find attractive would be okay with you spitting your game at her while everyone else is listening, and you loudly ask her for her number? now it's entirely possible that the woman in question may have no problems giving you her information. on the other hand, that's a setting where in general the woman would feel uncomfortable giving that information while so many people are around listening to the entire exchange. the other thing i notice, is that in this situation, you tend to notice the same people on your daily commute to work, because most people are pattern-based, and you tend to see the same people all the time.

i'm not saying it's not possible for you to get her info, but there are generally better situations where you'll have more success. a few years back, there was a girl on the same metro i take to work, and i wanted to chat with her. instead of putting her in the spotlight to make a yes/no decision on me, i waited until we both got off the train, and started a conversation while we both had more privacy. i only bring this up to say that you have to think about your surroundings. it's not smart in my opinion to think that you can chat a chick up anywhere. you have to be a bit smarter about it.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

Hey now...Those 80 year old women in the buy 2 get one free prune section can't just get on their knees in two seconds. It takes a lotta work on their part

Jk

It’s true. But they’re usually at the pharmacy getting arthritis medicine when I see them.

 

[Horse Style]

i take the metro to work every day. usually, most people are on their phones minding their own business, and it's dead silent. are you telling me that you think a woman you find attractive would be okay with you spitting your game at her while everyone else is listening, and you loudly ask her for her number? now it's entirely possible that the woman in question may have no problems giving you her information. on the other hand, that's a setting where in general the woman would feel uncomfortable giving that information while so many people are around listening to the entire exchange. the other thing i notice, is that in this situation, you tend to notice the same people on your daily commute to work, because most people are pattern-based, and you tend to see the same people all the time.

i'm not saying it's not possible for you to get her info, but there are generally better situations where you'll have more success. a few years back, there was a girl on the same metro i take to work, and i wanted to chat with her. instead of putting her in the spotlight to make a yes/no decision on me, i waited until we both got off the train, and started a conversation while we both had more privacy. i only bring this up to say that you have to think about your surroundings. it's not smart in my opinion to think that you can chat a chick up anywhere. you have to be a bit smarter about it.

This is typical "paralysis by analysis" mindset. And so what if it's dead silent? The worst case scenario is she feels awkward, turns you down and you go about your business. You're not gonna get shanked if that happens

Just curious, what does "spitting game" mean to you? If you're worried about what people around you are thinking then you sound like you're very uncomfortable with what you're doing.