When she strains to not look at you

cooks1 said:
LOL- Women do not expect, or want, a dudes A-Game when they are buying fucking kale.

Totally different if I was out at a party, bar, club, etc. And believe it or not, women like small talk. A lot of the time I don't even have a particular interest in pursuing them atm. Just keeping that banter sharp and laying a little groundwork just in case.

I mean shit, If I just went around doing nothing but asking out women I wanted to fuck, I would never have had time to do anything else, including eat.

As far as not wanting to appear creepy in a grocery store I go to 2-3 times a week, Yeah...I'll cop to that.
Click to expand...
It takes about 5 minutes to talk/flirt with a woman and ask for her number in a store. This isn't something long, arduous task.

If a girl likes you and you wait THAT long just for her name or ask her out, she'll lose interest and think something is wrong with you or you're not interested.

When you do finally ask, she'll be like "WTF?" and turn you down because she's no longer interested.

If she wasn't interested to begin with, she won't even remember your first interaction.
 
Jake the Muss said:
Also, if you are walking, chatting, and picking out stuff together, when you do ask her out, the first date almost feels like the second date.
Click to expand...

Now you are getting it my man!!!! And if you string that shit out for a couple months before you pounce, the woman will think she is in that fucking Outlander series that is getting the women so moist. I always make sure I happen to be nearby when my wife is done watching that.
 
"I'm Himbob by the way"

Should have added the above to the first convo.

It's so fucking simple, I say that not as an ibsins by a motivation. You can do it.
 
Some of you dudes sound real fucking weird. But, you are sherdoggers afterall. It’s to be expected.
tenor.gif
 
That's when you get all up in her business and say:
"Dayum! I love the smell of your deodorant!"
 
Sounds like she just wasn’t interested. Unless you are super outgoing and good looking then she was shy. But I seriously doubt that, especially at the age I’m assuming you and her are.

She could also be on the spectrum
 
Horse Style said:
It takes about 5 minutes to talk/flirt with a woman and ask for her number in a store. This isn't something long, arduous task.

If a girl likes you and you wait THAT long just for her name or ask her out, she'll lose interest and think something is wrong with you or you're not interested.

When you do finally ask, she'll be like "WTF?" and turn you down because she's no longer interested.

If she wasn't interested to begin with, she won't even remember your first interaction.
Click to expand...

If I liked a girl, I never had trouble asking them out. But the fact that a girls ass looks good when she is buying lettuce is not going to get me sufficiently interested in her to try and get her out on a date. It might get me interested in learning a little more though.

And honestly, I have never been sufficiently short on female attention that I ever felt the need to get a girl out on a date right away. Aside from the random casual encounters that any dude might have, I have always been more interested in spending my time with women I have had the chance to vet a little.
 
That’s never happened to me. Usually women in the grocery store strain just to blow me.
 
cooks1 said:
If I liked a girl, I never had trouble asking them out. But the fact that a girls ass looks good when she is buying lettuce is not going to get me sufficiently interested in her to try and get her out on a date. It might get me interested in learning a little more though.

And honestly, I have never been sufficiently short on female attention that I ever felt the need to get a girl out on a date right away. Aside from the random casual encounters that any dude might have, I have always been more interested in spending my time with women I have had the chance to vet a little.
Click to expand...
Uh huh, you have a "long game" gameplan all thought out. You're not asking anyone out when you first meet them.

And her looks won't entice you to ask her out but what does? Her thoughts on the produce section? You aren't even brave enough to ask her name until the second run-in. She's not interesting enough to ask her name during the first run-in?

<YeahOKJen>
 
You should’ve put your dick on the peppers showing her what a real man you are.


Then not even buy any of the peppers. That’s how you get a woman
 
Horse Style said:
Uh huh, you have a "long game" gameplan all thought out. You're not asking anyone out when you first meet them.

And her looks won't entice you to ask her out but what does? Her thoughts on the produce section? You aren't even brave enough to ask her name until the second run-in. She's not interesting enough to ask her name during the first run-in?
Click to expand...

If I was at a bar, not otherwise committed, and I wanted to fuck, I would do my best just like any bloke.

Shit, when I lived in Glasgow, we did not even bother going out until the clubs were about to close some nights. Just went to the Casino or stayed home drinking beer until 1:45, then just walked out to the taxi stands outside the biggest clubs, wait for the ladies to stumble out, and offer to share a taxi, or invite them back to the Casino, which was open all night. Drinking age 18, carding in bars and clubs virtually non-existent, it was like fishing with dynamite.

Outside of that, yeah, the people I asked out were predominantly ladies I had already met and developed an interest in over a few interactions or exchanges. Just how I rolled I guess. It was not a matter of working my courage up, it was more a matter of being interested enough.

I must have missed out on watching those Apex predators like you operate though Horse Style. Because in 48 years, and hundreds of grocery stores in at least 20 countries in can think of off the top of my head, I have never witnessed the 'produce selection pull'
 
cooks1 said:
If I was at a bar, not otherwise committed, and I wanted to fuck, I would do my best just like any bloke.

Shit, when I lived in Glasgow, we did not even bother going out until the clubs were about to close some nights. Just went to the Casino or stayed home drinking beer until 1:45, then just walked out to the taxi stands outside the biggest clubs, wait for the ladies to stumble out, and offer to share a taxi, or invite them back to the Casino, which was open all night. Drinking age 18, carding in bars and clubs virtually non-existent, it was like fishing with dynamite.

Outside of that, yeah, the people I asked out were predominantly ladies I had already met and developed an interest in over a few interactions or exchanges. Just how I rolled I guess. It was not a matter of working my courage up, it was more a matter of being interested enough.

I must have missed out on watching those Apex predators like you operate though Horse Style. Because in 48 years, and hundreds of grocery stores in at least 20 countries in can think of off the top of my head, I have never witnessed the 'produce selection pull'
Click to expand...
Cute little story you created but your "long-game strategy" comes straight out a corny romantic comedy and it's terrible advice for reality.

Not to mention you call something "produce section pull" like it's some mystical task when it's just talking to a woman you met in public and asking for a number. It doesn't matter where it happens, whether it's the produce section or out on the street.

It's fine if you stick to that goofy TV movie "long game plan" but don't offer that horse shit to someone who wants advice
 
Last edited:
Horse Style said:
Cute little story you created but your "long-game strategy" comes straight out a corny romantic comedy and it's terrible advice for reality.

Not to mention you call something "produce section pull" like it's some mystical task when it's just talking to a woman you met in public and asking for a number. It doesn't matter where it happens, whether it's the produce section or out on the street.
Click to expand...

I disagree. Settings Matter. There are a lot of settings where it is insanely rare to see people asking for phone numbers or asking them out on dates. For a variety of reasons. Either because it's awkward, other people are in proximity (which can effect the outcome) or perhaps becasue the odds of success are not that high.

Believe what you will about I have written. I am all for a person making a move whenever it suits them provided they are genuinely interested in a person.

It's interesting that you are mocking my 'produce pull' reference as some kind of mystical task. Because I think your anytime, anywhere, circumstances be damned, perspective is indicative of someone who has spent a little too much time believing porn movie plots and reading Penthouse Forum stories.

But Hey, if it's working out for you- Keep it up.

 
Horse Style said:
Cute little story you created but your "long-game strategy" comes straight out a corny romantic comedy and it's terrible advice for reality.

Not to mention you call something "produce section pull" like it's some mystical task when it's just talking to a woman you met in public and asking for a number. It doesn't matter where it happens, whether it's the produce section or out on the street.

It's fine if you stick to that goofy TV movie "long game plan" but don't offer that horse shit to someone who wants advice
Click to expand...
This sounds like some shit tbh.

People talk to me frequently enough when I’m in stores. But I couldn’t tell you what any of them looked like or what they said because honestly who cares enough to remember? And I’m most often in the produce section getting kale for my rabbits.

Let a dude come up a month later and act like I remember what he said to me about a bundle of kale. Lmao ain’t happening. And if he remembered I might think he’s a fucking weirdo. Nevermind him repeatedly doing that? Prolly a serial killer that’s eyeing me. Brb, changing markets s:
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Latest posts

Forum statistics

Threads
1,236,699
Messages
55,435,777
Members
174,774
Latest member
kilgorevontrouty

Share this page

Back
Top