That's interesting...I'm barely just starting to get back at it so I can slow my roll with all of the beer drinking. I don't know why but I'm the least motivated with leg workouts when it comes to weight lifting. But I need to better start pushing so I can learn to enjoy that shit.
Well, as the old adage goes, "slow and steady wins the race."
Well no, it's not really a race, but more of a lifestyle. For me, it's a never-ending journey.
Cut back on the drinking and be very wise with your food selection. Alcohol, processed food, and sugar can be detrimental to your natural testosterone production, so only indulge on them occasionally.
Red meat, vegetable, and complex carbs comprise the bulk of my diet, and as you already know, I'm a teetotaler, so alcohol is out of the equation for me.
But you may find that along the way, weight lifting can be a great lifestyle and it will behoove you to make considerable changes in other aspects in your life to accommodate it.
Good luck on your journey. When the going gets rough, don't quit. Just keeps going.