In order for you to understand the specifics why i am calling pugilistic chinese you would understand if you were korean. Not even he understands because hes not korean. Its not a racist or saying chinese are less people but in korea chinese are ashamed to be chinese and pretend they are korean. I made several jokes that he works in a black bean noodle restaurant and instead of understanding the significance of that dish to chinese he instead thought i meant he work a menial job and suggested he work at a food counter in a mart. He may speak and write some but his knowledge of the culture is like anyone who went there as adult and lived there a few years. His understanding of the culture is very shallow like from total outside observation.
The video description said the hispanic woman cut in line. Im going to assume the person who shot the video knows more about it than you who seems to automatically want to give the line cutting hispanic woman the benefit of the doubt and automatically assume the racist woman had no reason to be mad. She might be racist but that doesnt mean the hispanic woman didnt do anything wrong and i dont recall commenting on her appearance.you're unable to make the distinction how that in itself can be offensive. you're factoring in stereotypes to make sense of things.
- you don't know if the Hispanic woman really cut in line (maybe the one of them was holding a spot for the other).
- the Hispanic women didn't want to make a scene & just carried on with their business.
you even went off making fun of their appearance/weight etc.
anyways, I'm not trying to argue this further going off on to strange tangents & then off to semantics.
you should just apply a filter to the offensive tone you default to. I know it has to do with Korean & American cultural differences, but really - you're over here now so might as well play ball otherwise you're always going to get heat.