So I have been friends with this guy for about 20 years. We used to party a lot way back in the day in Michigan before I moved 2500 miles away but we still talk on the phone a few times a year. He always has been really sensitive (has victim mentality) and not that intelligent or maybe just a quitter I'm not really sure. He never graduated High School or got his GED. He is 35 years old and still lives at home with his Dad and has no intentions of ever moving out. He's been on disability for a mental disorder (doesn't go to therapy anymore) for the last 10 years and works part-time at a RC hobby shop. He's not a drug dealer but he does sell some suboxone, xanax and adderall pills that are legally prescribed to him for extra cash. He makes pretty good money from his 3 sources of income but blows most of it on RC cars which he has literally has over $20k invested in his 3 (Buggy, car, Truck). He spends 4 days a week at a race track preparing for the league tournament races that our on Fridays. So is my buddy a bum because he refuses to save his money and get his own place or even try to get a real job? Or is he a BOSS because he has manipulated the system to work in his favor? He gets pretty upset whenever I give him advice so I thought I would get some other input. Cliff Notes *Long time buddy is 35 and still lives with Dad and refuses to ever move out *He sells prescription drugs for extra cash *He's on disability for a mental disorder and also works part time *Spends all his time and money on RC cars *Is he a BOSS or a BUM?