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We dated for 4 years before we got married and our marriage lasted about 9 years.
Sorry about your divorce. I went through one myself, but 4 years dating the person and you did not figure out there were issues? Both partners can be annoying to each other. There is a line you cross that eventually makes the marriage go bad. The trick is to stay away from that 'line'. What exactly are these 'habits' that your partner is doing that bothers you? Hard to say if they are trivial or not.