eventually it will...sooner than laterI'm in the US and that would never work here
People tend to behave better in cultures where shaming is an effective deterrent.
For example, I saw a video from China where this crosswalk has a camera and a screen, and if you walk at the wrong time then it shows your face on the screen to shame you.
I'm in the US and that would never work here. Too many people just have this belief like, "I don't care. I do what I want." And they have no shame.
Shame works in all other kinds of aspects too. If you're a lazy man that won't get a job, to provide for your family, shame. If you cheat on your spouse, shame. If you shoplift, shame. If you drive drunk, shame.
The shame from society is often a greater deterrent than any legal consequence. And the end result is you have fewer people acting like selfish assholes.
So how do we add more shame to society?
I thought my ratio was decent but damnit, I just got cyber bulliedShun people for their pathetic Likes count, I see several candidates in this particular thread already
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I 100% support thisMake punching people in the face legal again.
i know what you're talking about and I don't know if shame or anything else is the answer but I'm really tired of it at this point in my life. My personal answer is to withdraw.People tend to behave better in cultures where shaming is an effective deterrent.
For example, I saw a video from China where this crosswalk has a camera and a screen, and if you walk at the wrong time then it shows your face on the screen to shame you.
I'm in the US and that would never work here. Too many people just have this belief like, "I don't care. I do what I want." And they have no shame.
Shame works in all other kinds of aspects too. If you're a lazy man that won't get a job, to provide for your family, shame. If you cheat on your spouse, shame. If you shoplift, shame. If you drive drunk, shame.
The shame from society is often a greater deterrent than any legal consequence. And the end result is you have fewer people acting like selfish assholes.
So how do we add more shame to society?
it's a country of contradictions, people are extremely judgemental, whether it's neighbors or employers.America is built on celebrating the shameless.
You need to accept the monarchy back and pay your taxes as God intended, then we can work on you celebrating your betters.
Shame based morality tends to be weak IMHO, people basically behave a certain way for fear of getting caught but when they think they can get away with something.....
Really the "golden age" conservatives like to remember is just a time were things like sexual abuse were hushed up more, move on the priest to the next church and don't cause a fuss.
Community. I don't care what strangers who I do not know, and who do not pay me, think. But I go to church. At church, because I need these people to help raise my kid, I do not talk to people like I'm on Sherdog.
If I am at the park, and some idiot tells me about Biden, I'll say something like "Biden is human trash and he should be dragged into an international war crime trial with Obama and Trump." Then let the chips fall.
I'm at church, and someone says, Biden this and that, I nod along or say something measured.
People that I am totally disenfranchised from have no effect on my behavior. They are barely even people to me.
Community. I don't care what strangers who I do not know, and who do not pay me, think. But I go to church. At church, because I need these people to help raise my kid, I do not talk to people like I'm on Sherdog.
If I am at the park, and some idiot tells me about Biden, I'll say something like "Biden is human trash and he should be dragged into an international war crime trial with Obama and Trump." Then let the chips fall.
I'm at church, and someone says, Biden this and that, I nod along or say something measured.
People that I am totally disenfranchised from have no effect on my behavior. They are barely even people to me.
my Japanese mentor used the "I'm so dissapointed in you" on his son to great effect. Believe me, the shit was effective the way he did it. Not that his piece of shit son ever changed, he didn't. But he was in his head and manipulative. How do I know? They both did the same shit to me....It was a learning thing though, we all do to and treat others how we were done and treated.I'm not sure you understand what shame means.
Shame is how one views themselves, it's internal.... to "shame" someone is to make them and others aware that they aren't living up to the expectations of society.
Put it in parent-child terms... punishment is when a kid is grounded, "shame" is when a parent tell a kid that they disappointed them.
i think they say like 80 percent of us have some sort of hpv, maybe the dick is clean but most of us have some bugs of some kind. You can't be around as many people as we are today and not pick up something sometimes.People should have to wear their STDs like a scarlet letter(s).
Mr. Clean Dick over here and I'm trying to keep it that way.
I was thinking last night about how fucked up my church people were growing up, gossipy, petty, judgemental, nitpicky. I remember the pastors wife telling me to dress in my best clothes and she said something really negative about how my parents didn't do much in that regard. I told my parents and they got mad, marched to K-mart and bought the best K-mart shit they could. As soon as this bitch saw K-marts finest she said, "you look nice, where'd you get that, K-mart?" And these are the types of people who are supposed to be helping motherfuckers get closer to god?
America is built on celebrating the shameless.
You need to accept the monarchy back and pay your taxes as God intended, then we can work on you celebrating your betters.