Are affairs/open marriages/cheating almost normal now?

[WandySaku2]

You would rather be a cuck? (Classic definition, not porn style)

I think his point is that he wants to continue to enjoy his loving relationship regardless of how it got there. If his wife scratched her itch a couple of times over the years, what difference would it make if he knew or not?

 

[Kframe]

I think his point is that he wants to continue to enjoy his loving relationship regardless of how it got there. If his wife scratched her itch a couple of times over the years, what difference would it make if he knew or not?

I wont be married to a whore. Getting cucked reflects badly on the husband.

 

[Deleted member 347815]

She's setting you up, bro.

Too good to be true imo.

 

[Amerikuracana]

How would that be creepy?

And what woman would be turned off by her man thinkin of her while getting off? Lol.

Not creepy.. But it would put a man at a disadvantage. If you desire them more than they desire you, it's just a matter of time.

I have sex with the person I'm with passionately, all the time, because I usually love them and it feels the best.. But I think of different things when I wank. This is since I was 13.

 

[Midnighter]

Not creepy.. But it would put a man at a disadvantage. If you desire them more than they desire you, it's just a matter of time.

I have sex with the person I'm with passionately, all the time, because I usually love them and it feels the best.. But I think of different things when I wank. This is since I was 13.

If you think of my posts when you wank, either reply or ignore this post.

 

[milenss]

Look who our president is. We are living in the bizarro era.

Look! We are living in a bizzare era. The President of the USA is an ethnically American conservative Christian.

 

[Only Here for Attachments]

conservative

Was a registered Democrat for the longest time<45>

Christian

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[Kardashians]

Masterbation is fantasy and wish based. Fantasy is typically based on something you have not had and wishing is based on something you cannot have. Why would you fantasize or wish about a steak dinner if a steak dinner is right there in front of and it's yours?

I see nothing creepy about it, I just don't believe it happens.

Yeah but those are entirely different reasons than what he said so I’m not sure how it’s relevant to the questions that I’m asking him.

 

[Amerikuracana]

Masterbation is fantasy and wish based. Fantasy is typically based on something you have not had and wishing is based on something you cannot have. Why would you fantasize or wish about a steak dinner if a steak dinner is right there in front of and it's yours?

I see nothing creepy about it, I just don't believe it happens.

This is a better way to say what I said.

 

[Skov]

You may not have cheated but given the infidelity stats, good chance she has.

You have a very shallow view of relationships and a lot of insecurity.

 

[IReallyDoTrainUFC]

You’ll have to stick to brunettes then.

Mine says she’ll cut my dick off. I called her on that though, cause she enjoys it too much.

She's lying to you, if she really said that at all.

 

[IReallyDoTrainUFC]

Ive been married for 19 years. I have never cheated on my wife and she has never cheated on me. Our sex is extremely intense and fulfilling, lustfull even.

The secret to not getting bored with the same woman for 20 years? I never mastrubate or fantazise to or about any other women than my wife. To the best of my ability I avoid looking at other women sexually or noticing them sexually. I discipline myself sexually. This leads to intense lust for my wife every single time we have sex.

I know this works because I have done it both ways with my wife, thought of other women, fantasized, porn ect. Every one of these acts diminishes the intensity I have with my wife. The lack of them intensifies it.

Completely agree. I'm the same way.

 

[DLX]

I'm buddies with a few swingers. I don't really ask many questions about it, if they want to tell me I'll sure as hell listen though. I had a good buddy ask me to bang his fiancee once, he got in a bad trucking accident and couldn't have sex anymore. He called me up and asked if I'd do it, I told him no but was nice about it (I'm married and the chick wasn't really hot).

Hell of a friend.

 

[Eusung]

Where I live it's really easy to have an affair with a married MILF in her 30s or 40s....reaaallly easy.

I think we have one of the highest rates of adultry here. Probably one of the side effects of being pressured to marry before you turn 30.

 

[Yuval Levy]

Just make sure, the girl your banging doesn't have powerful husband who can make you "disappear"

 

[Kframe]

You have a very shallow view of relationships and a lot of insecurity.

Insecurity? Backed by science son. 50% of everyone cheats on their partners. So... Good chance he has been cheated on. Hell, I k now I have been cheated on in the past.

 

[FierceRedBelt]

If you think of my posts when you wank, either reply or ignore this post.

I know I do.

 

[FierceRedBelt]

Just make sure, the girl your banging doesn't have powerful husband who can make you "disappear"

I feel like I haven't seen one of your posts in 5 years. Nice to see you.

 

[shunyata]

I’m a happily married father of 3 and have noticed a trend amongst my friends, conversations they have about others, people I’ve spoken with during work through my business and on holiday as well as seeing first hand and I feel there is a huge amount of couples/individuals who either habitually cheat on their spouse, have open marriages/swingers or have affairs with people (especially those in the same line of work or on holiday) am I blowing this out of proportion? Is it the same as it ever was? Wtf is going on?

No, it's not. Your friends are just sluts.