Does being an a**hole ruin your relationships?

Bad boys or rude boys? My responses tend to be rude in general. You don’t have handle called Provocateur by being nice.
 
I think I'm naturally nice, flawed, frustrated, but nice.

When I play games with a moraliry system, I generally do nice on my first play through. I also tend to veer towards non-lethal.

I do have dark thoughts though.
 
Sherdog lives in me forever. I can’t help but to be an asshole as a normal response to everyone in my personal life. Do you guys have the same problem or is it just me?

P.S. fuck you
Yes, being an asshole is catastrophic for relationships. And, the fact that you're putting out bad vibes to humanity on a regular basis means that in a tiny way you're making society worse, as there's always a domino effect, however slight, when there's a mean-spirited exchange. Not to mention that being an asshole to others always circles back to yourself, so ultimately you're not doing yourself any favors. Seems you had some bad role models when you were young, I don't know, or maybe you're just a miserable person because of brain chemistry, bad diet, alcohol and drugs.....hope you turn things around.
 
Idk what meets the criteria, but I think even a friend would get fatigued from their friend being irritated or abrasive too often, to others or especially to them.
 
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It can work in many professional relationships by terrorizing those beneath you and I suppose it could work in some situations in a persons personal life because when you're totally docile, people will just run all over you. But being an asshole can just make people not want to deal with you at all or speak badly of you too. I had an uncle who was a good, decent man but he had this thing where he'd just latch on to a person's deficiency and just not let up. Some people can't handle that. I always say treat people nice if you can, when you die you don't want people being indifferent to the shit and I've seen that happen quite a few times. Bad things happening to bad people and no one even cares, that's how it is if you like being an asshole.

I'm not innocent myself, i can be a real bastard myself but most of the time these days I feel justified. People will make you an asshole and complain when you call them on their behavior.
 
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Sherdog lives in me forever. I can’t help but to be an asshole as a normal response to everyone in my personal life. Do you guys have the same problem or is it just me?

P.S. fuck you
I remember a time when the first page of every thread was nothing but people telling you to fuck off and kill yourself.

We're a slightly healthier forum now.

So fuck off and severely injure yourself.
 
Sherdog lives in me forever. I can’t help but to be an asshole as a normal response to everyone in my personal life. Do you guys have the same problem or is it just me?

P.S. fuck you

Are you 12?
 
No. Ghosting people for committing microaggressions against me that they didn't even know they did tends to ruin my relationships.
 
My wife says im an arsehole all the time because of how much shit I give her/make fun of her. But she loves me because it makes her laugh.
This dynamic wouldn't work if i did arsehole things and didn't do nice things.
 
I'm the opposite of you
I really do try to be nice as often as possible.

Although im less nice and far, far more cynical these days. Unfortunately that's how life goes a lot of the time.
 
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