Confession that she'll never know (long)

Find her.

Take her out on a date.

Profit.

for real. Go for it, dude.
 
Ok, so I went back and read it. Good God, you're the 40 year old virgin. Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. If you want to talk to her, look her up. She probably has some sort of social media.
 
Find her.

Take her out on a date.

Profit.

for real. Go for it, dude.

This.

Spill the beans and you're gold in this scenario.

Or you can just be a moronic loser who acts like Sherdog is their personal diary.
 
The way I see it, you have two options: 1. do nothing and be in the same situation you are in now. 2. talk to her. If you choose 2, you have two possible outcomes 1. she doesn't want to meet you and you are in the same situation you are in now. 2. she wants to meet you and you are in a better place. Only one option has the possibility of chaning your life. Choose that option. You're kind of the two-toed-sloth of love, but better late than never.
 
Now you have an in, dude. Go back to where you know she works or shops, I'm not clear if you met her while she was shopping or working this time. Tell her she caught you off guard and you were having a rough day, say that you don't want to bore her with the details, but of course you remember her, you feel like a dick about it, and ask her if she wants to catch up some time.

Then you can be really heartbroken when she tells you about her husband!
 
You're gonna fit right in with the rest of the clowns here.
 
Can I see your fedora collection sometime?
 
Get over yourself, you're just some dude. Not ever having a girl doesn't make you a unique flower. Stop pretending you're protecting some delicate secret that she can never know when all you're doing is consistently keeping yourself out of situations where your ego isn't crushed by the likely reality that if she got to know you she would think much much less of you.
 
You got some problems man.

You're so scared of being vulnerable that you'd rather live life in a small pathetic shell.

Ultimately this girl doesn't matter anymore, but you should probably start owning up for who you are and take some chances in life.

Otherwise you'll just be this lonely, scared, dickface that's never been honest with himself or anyone ever.

Man up! Fuck.
 
If you still feel that way about her after all these years then you could very well be in love. Look her up and make your move, and be honest with her, she'll appreciate it. If you don't make a move, I imagine you'll regret it forever.
 
Not calling was fucked up, breh.
 
I don't know where she works, she was getting lunch with 2 friends. She had a work uniform on so shes probably near by somewhere.

The problem is i still have the same issues today but magnified x10 (except i dont pretend im cool). I don't think i can get past them, its easier to be a coward.

I just wanted to get it off my chest. In the past ive found writing things out and posting them online has helped me manage stress.

I've been getting a lot of nightmares again and i noticed im chewing up the inside of my cheeks so im just going to vent a little now and then to help release a little stress.
 
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