Tried Match like 10 years ago where I successfully had a bunch of first dates, mainly with socially awkward types. Nothing major panned out.
Recently, I've tried Facebook Dating and Bumble. I met a good guy on FB Dating but he voluntarily asked me to friend zone him since he's in a spot in life where he doesn't want anything major. So he's turned into my flirty best friend. I don't like how Hinge and OK Cupid "move" so I've been active on Bumble. Most chats end in dead ends where they ghost you, are WAY too forward or cancel a first date the day of.

Its been like pulling teeth to get actual dates off of that.
I did meet this talk, dark and handsome stud on Bumble. We both liked each other in the chats but he was too aggressive in person. I met his aggression with my own aggression/defensiveness and unfortunately I think it got on his nerves.
I wish I would have figured out my Bumble guy was not humble during the chat phase. He seemed easily miffed by everything on our date, and it made me curious about
how to contact DateMyAge for advice or tips on navigating these situations. It's a shame because we have a lot in common and I really like him. It is what it is.