Two Scenarios: What if you fell in love with a girl, but she never told you she did Porn..

Bust out the camera in the b d room say you want to film it and see how she reacts. Maybe you’ll get lucky and she’ll naturally revert to the gamechanging head. If so keep, if not bounce.

Scenario two, rub one out, go tell friend you just rubbed one out to his g/f’s porn and ask if you can have a turn. Can’t hurt that p any worse now
 
1) Continue to date her casually. Marriage probably off the table at that point though. Don't want her making a porno after every argument we have.

2) Say nothing, and save the details for my best man speech. It would be epic.
 
1. Nope, would have to dump her. The embarrassment of her videos becoming a topic of conversation would be too much. Imagine you have kids one day and your son's friend starts making fun of his mom for some nasty shit she did.

2. Would tell him right away. Bros before hoes
 
1) Break up because you can't base a relationship off of lies. Not a good one anyway. I'm candid about my filthy extracurricular activities at least show me the same respect.

2) If it was an acquaintance I'd just jerk off and keep it pushing. Close friend, I'd have the conversation with them.
 
Scenario 1 I bail and make sure I don't have any super terrific days (STDs)

Scenario 2.ive been there before, the fact is majority of guys on this planet are such white knights they'll either think I'm trying to disrespect his girl out of jealousy or thirst, or will say I'm a liar.

Either way they're too stubborn for their own good and need life to deal the hand, only then do they get where I'm coming from.
 
The real question is what would you do if found out after you got married.
 
1 - it would be tough to bring her around the family knowing they could have all watched her get slpooged on, but Kanye West did it so maybe it would be ok

2 - I would of course tell my friend what was up.

you can’t have someone who hates him getting that information before he does and somehow messing with him over it, like an ex or something, someone trying to screw with his head. Better to come from a friend. And I would want to be told too.
 
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See when you hear that stuff you realize honor died long ago. The lying is sickening and worse then the action in many ways
yeah i have no issue if a woman wants to be a whore, own up to it, and marry a no good man as well with your same morals, dont lie about your past to marry a poor sap nice guy who you fool, cant stand deception.

Just be honest to lie and use deception shows you know that being a porn slut has a negative stigma.

I respect girls who are honest about their past more than girls who pretend to be something they are not.
 
1. not going forward. I consider that a great dishonesty to not disclose which to me is worse in a relationship than the acts themselves.

2. Bro's first. I am not telling my best friend if they are already married and making a life but before marriage I am certainly taking my est bud out for a beer and making sure he knows. That is what friends do. I would offer the info with no judgement, and be fine with whatever decision he made but if he did not know it he should take no issue with me making sure he does before marriage, and if he does know it already he should know that if I found it, others will, and as long as he is ok with that I would support him.

I would go further and say you are not a good best friend if you do not tell him if he is not already married to her.
 
And you found out later after falling bad for her?

Scenario 1

you met a sweet girl, she was a nursing student around 25 years old, she didn't party or drink told you she stopped drinking and just enjoyed spending time with you, came off as a sweet girl very pretty etc. Later you ask her to marriage, and are engaged but then you find out that she did porn because one of her friends she had a falling out with decides to email you some of her porns. And tells you she did porn from 18 to 21 years of age and slept with more than 70 men, and did some ghetto bangers porns, and drank sperm of strange ugly men, and did all types of weird stuff like licking buttholes etc.

How would you handle that? how would you confront her would you be hurt would you rage, would you go into a deep depression and no longer trust women having met the sweetest girl ever and it turned out she had done some disgusting porn and gave up the poon with ease? and you treated her like a lady and asked her hand in marriage would you feel a loser?

or would you say hey thats the past even though she lied to me she is a changed woman now and forgive her and wife her up even though the sex you had was basic and she sucked those dudes in the porns off better than she did you?

Scenario 2

Say your best friend was madly in love like the guy in the above situation, and his girlfriend of 2 years who appeared sweet did porn, say you stumbled upon her videos when you were looking at those porn sites would you tell your friend and warn him that his girl is a former porn chick or just keep it secret and not say anything and let him marry a woman who is holding her porn past a secret?

How would you handle both scenarios

Scenario 1: Prolly ask for confirmed mileage and a super strict STD check, then carry on with the nuptials.

Scenario 2: STFU and masturbate till elbow tendonitis hits. Then switch arms.
 
if she did over 70 men on film odds are I'd know before our first date..... you know from research and stuff.

Years ago, I was casually seeing (booty call) a woman that was widow. Her husband was a biker that got drunk at a party, rode his bike home and missed his exit literally and flipped over the rail of the overpass and died. She was basically into all the stuff TS described, first time I went to nut she just looked at me with an open mouth and tongue out. Anyway, this went on for a few months but I'd only see her maybe a couple times a month and she knew I was seeing other girls. At one point she tells me that she is getting really serious feelings for me and that she had to tell me something; she used to dance and was an escort, then pulled out VHS tapes of her doing other women with a strap on, then a tape of her doing her deceased husband with a strap on while he was wearing pantyhose and high heels. At the end of it all she looked at me and I guess the look on my face said all that needed to be said because she said "I shouldn't have told you all that, should I?"

So based on my reaction to that, I can say I'd dump the girl in example 1

As far as example 2, It depends. I've seen situations too many times where when you tell someone something like that it's created blowback that I'd never have expected. I'd probably just keep my mouth shut and secretly get a good chuckle out of it, and of course fwap to her pron.
 
The real question is what would you do if found out after you got married.

Married and have kids, that happens all the time, its very common, but the man is already screwed so he just has to stay married for the kids.

I seen it on jenny jones or one of those talk shows the chick mentioned her past she said when she was 18 to 24 she did pornos and was escorting, they fooled the husband to go on the show he was smiling thinking he was going to get a nice surprise instead she confesses to him on national tv that she never told him about her porn past, to make herself feel better she said the reason i never said anything was because you never asked if i did pornos lol, seriously most men dont ask a question like that but she used that to justify why she never said shit, she the. Said she never told him because she was afraid to lose him.
 
1. Highly unlikely. I am the type of person who likes and isn't shy about asking personal questions about the people I am interested in. The girl would have to be a very seasoned and crafty liar who have mapped out a fake life completely for me to marry her without revealing this past. If it did happen, then divorce is certainly in the conversation. Morality aside, the deception would certainly put my trust in her in jeopardy.

2. Only if the guy is my best friend.
 
1. Highly unlikely. I am the type of person who likes and isn't shy about asking personal questions about the people I am interested in. The girl would have to be a very seasoned and crafty liar who have mapped out a fake life completely for me to marry her without revealing this past. If it did happen, then divorce is certainly in the conversation. Morality aside, the deception would certainly put my trust in her in jeopardy.

2. Only if the guy is my best friend.
I get your point, but who asks a girl "say, ever do any bukake on film?"
 
1. Highly unlikely. I am the type of person who likes and isn't shy about asking personal questions about the people I am interested in. The girl would have to be a very seasoned and crafty liar who have mapped out a fake life completely for me to marry her without revealing this past. If it did happen, then divorce is certainly in the conversation. Morality aside, the deception would certainly put my trust in her in jeopardy.

2. Only if the guy is my best friend.
With facebook and internet its harder for pasts to be hidden, especially porn, they think using a fake name in porn is enough to mask their identity lol, its funny how the stories are the same many of these chicks come to hollywood do pornos then leave to the midwest and like its starting over witness protection, lol

And windmup becoming christian housewives and moms, most of the time their husbands have no clue about their past.
 
I get your point, but who asks a girl "say, ever do any bukake on film?"

Not like that, the girl in question is not "one and done" but a seasoned pornstar who was in the industry for up to 4 years from the age of 18 to 21. The conversation will come up, I would invariably ask what she did if she wasn't in school. And if she was, what was she doing for income.
 
Married and have kids, that happens all the time, its very common, but the man is already screwed so he just has to stay married for the kids.

I seen it on jenny jones or one of those talk shows the chick mentioned her past she said when she was 18 to 24 she did pornos and was escorting, they fooled the husband to go on the show he was smiling thinking he was going to get a nice surprise instead she confesses to him on national tv that she never told him about her porn past, to make herself feel better she said the reason i never said anything was because you never asked if i did pornos lol, seriously most men dont ask a question like that but she used that to justify why she never said shit, she the. Said she never told him because she was afraid to lose him.
You're probably right about being screwed and having to stay. All bets are off if that shit goes on live TV though.
 
1. You'd have to break up with her if not attend marriage counseling or some shit. If shes lied about that then who knows what else she could be dishonest about. Its a breach of trust and that is a no-go.

2. If its a close bro id tell him. if not id laugh and mind my own business.
 
Not like that, the girl in question is not "one and done" but a seasoned pornstar who was in the industry for up to 4 years from the age of 18 to 21. The conversation will come up, I would invariably ask what she did if she wasn't in school. And if she was, what was she doing for income.
based on the parameters by the TS 70 dudes could be a one year career or even less. I've seen some bios where within a couple years a girl has done over 200 scenes. I've seen women get really vague about things like that, especially when you're talking about that "one year she took off to find herself", and her income, well unless she was living outside what we might consider normal means it probably wouldn't come up.
I remember the one thread on here a few years back where some girl did a video when she came down here to Florida and she was about to get married, people were brutal emailing her, her family members and I think the fiance. I can't remember if it was here or on bodybuilding.com but people got in trouble and a lot of bans. I even mentioned how my brother in law worked for the music production wing of the people that owned "bang brothers" and there were a lot of instances where what we'd consider normal girls would do videos for various channels they had making about $3,000 per video. It was crazy that you'd have some girl come down here and do about a half dozen scenes over a couple weeks, then cash out. Between that and the stories of wives calling up about their husband's credit card charges asking what's "Tranny Surprise"?
 
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