He basically said (im paraphrasing-dont remember word for word) that fighting is alot of mentality. Your will and determination and toughness. He said that it werent true than the worlds richest men would pay the best trainers and acquire all the skills in all the disciplines, and be toughest men on planet. But we know thats not true(Zuck anyone). Said Royce Gracie was a tough SOB not cause of bjj but cause he was just a tough guy. I really feel that is pretty profound. A martial art cant unmake you a pussy. Even an art like wrestling. Youre either a fighter or like tank said, youre a tough athlete. He said not all wrestlers are fighters.