Funny quick story my lady reminded me of last night.
I served as security staff in an inner city shelter. The kind of place that has constant physical threat and violence against staff and clients. I'm still as jumpy as a long tail cat at any sudden sound or commotion from it...Call it heightened situational awareness. Anyway...
Last night we were checking out this fire dancer dude who actually had some good bow staff moves. Of course we were like "WTF happens if he catches on fire" Same as everyone thinks. Well she brings up that we'd been in the same situation a few years ago with a female fire dancer who had a couple of spotters. She literally caught on fire and I'm in the crowd repeating like I'm on Walkie Coms with my squad "She's on fire, she's on fire" 30 seconds before her spotters saw it...
Point is and this came up in a "should I train self defense" thread somewhere here. It's the environmental awareness that you need to drill. You can't be ready for emergency unless you are conditioned to recognize it without thinking.
Another case, a long time homeless guy almost died on scene. He looked like he went to sleep and was cardiac terminal I'd been on my rounds and subconsciously saw him there the first time around, second It was automatic to the medi crew alarm and administer first aid he ended up by passing a week later.
I'll post some VE's sometime cause we had to neutralize them on a daily basis. I can hear escalation from across a crowded club now and point it out while security is still flat footed. That's the kind of skill that keeps you out of trouble or able to process the adrenaline dump when assaulted, not punching pads or rolling around on a carefully padded floor.
That last sentence sums it up perfectly, thank you very much for the post! Some of my own experience:
I used to live in a rather dangerous neighborhood, really close to the local soccer stadium. All the ground floor windows along my street had metal bars on them - and for good reasons too, the place was swarmed with thugs / hooligans after every game and they'd kick bins, smash cars and even beat random ppl up. I was coming home late at night once (something I shouldn't have done in the first place) and got jumped by them. They stole my mobile phone but thanks to keeping calm and verbal deescalation they let me off easy. I did not get beat up and even kept my wallet with my credit cards, id etc. Fighting them would be idiotic - I was alone, I was surrounded and outnumbered. The outcome would have been much worse.
I started Karate around the time to learn how to defend myself but quickly realized, Karate-trained or not, I'd still be fucked if the same situation happened again. So I focused on awareness and avoidance. I would be extra careful on game nights, have buddies with me most of the time and take a taxi home if it was late (if I could afford it). A few months later the stage was set for the same occurrence as before - but it didn't go that way for a number of reasons. First of all, I was much more aware of the danger and my surroundings so I spotted the group of hooligans early and had time to think and react. Second, I had a better understanding of who I was dealing with and how they would behave. As they were closing in, I noticed the local team insignia on their clothes. I knew who the team beat that night so immediately I shouted the team slogan and something along "we fucked up
*opponent team name* yeah!". Their knee-jerk reaction was to repeat the slogan and instantly I turned from would-be-victim to ally. We all briefly celebrated, I got a pat on the back and was on my way.
Note that in both cases FIGHTING would have been a bad choice, even if I was a blend of Fedor and Machida. First of all, I could have been stabbed (not uncommon). Second, even if I was the victor I'd probably get hurt anyway. Third, the laws in Poland are such that ppl with martial arts experience face criminal charges if they are involved in a fight and the guy who got hurt files a court case - even if it was in self-defense! Lose-lose-lose situation.