Discussion in 'Mayberry Lounge' started by xLividEvilx, May 31, 2014.
Interest on your part. My guess is that you took her interest as a go ahead to be a little more 'thirsty' than she wanted. So she shut you down when you asked... You went back to being aloof and the interest piqued once more...
It's really just how it goes man. You have to know when to reciprocate that interest. If it's too early, too much or even worse... both, then you're going to get the result you got initially.
Keep her on the hook. Be nice, be a gentleman, but don't reciprocate her interest... In fact, do the opposite. Let her do the work... She will, I promise.
Go home and play with her cat?
Or go home and play with her pussy?!
act like she aint shit.
avoid showing any interest what so ever.
girls LOVE that srsly its weird
I'll admit I was being spontaneous, and I really had no expectation either way.
Truth is I'm just super busy all the time and tonight I had a free night which I haven't had in awhile. I let her know that too, and was aware I put her on the spot.
I thought she was cute, and maybe into me and said "Fuck it" and went for it. Didn't feel like wasting the time wondering and trying to build rapport, etc etc when I have work, school and other obligations.
Obviously it's a very aggressive approach. What guy wouldn't asking a girl out, that he's barely talked to, and expecting her to go out with him within a few hours notice? I admit I'm egotistical enough to have the balls to do just that and think it MIGHT have a shot. But I'm not to the point where I expect that she'd just say yes, or that I should be shocked or butthurt when she says no.
I'm going to imagine the latter for sciency reasons.
when the cat can have the ball of wool ,it aint interested..
when you dangle the ball of wool ,just out of reach the cat goes crazy trying to get it..
you'll have to dangle yourself just out of reach..
so to speak..
maybe you're gay
Bitches be crazy, brah.:icon_chee
By "dangling" you're obviously referring to my penis assume. This may be a bit tricky at work, but I'll see what I can do...
Sounds like you played it well. Just keep being pleasant and if she makes it obvious again, ask her again.
That is, without a doubt, purely, clearly, undeniably, 100 PERCENT
you start making her jealous..
speak to some other women while she is around ,see what happens .
You shouldn't have asked her out multiple times. Once she said no you should have pretty much ignored her - been pleasant but not really paying her attention. Let her make the next move if she's going to, but never ask a woman out again after she has rejected you; it comes across as desperate and beta.
Wtf? She's acting as if social interactions are more subtle and complex than all-or-nothing arrangements.
She needs some attention right now. Sounds like someone just broke up with her (hence the crying).
She may need attention... or crave it. Most Women do, imo. But giving it to her was the TS' downfall. And it would be again if the same attention was given.
You played it well IMO.
IMO, after a few interactions, a girl is either interested or not. You saw the signs and asked her out, is normal.
"It's f**k or walk" is my new motto on women, this whole "long game" deal is too much work. She's either interested or not.
IMO, by you noticing that she was "crying", "looking for you" makes me feel like you're thinking about this particular girl too much.
You have already expressed your interest. What more can you do?? Now you should spread your bets, ask out other women, diversify your bonds!
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