Well since I am spilling my guts.....I am ashamed to say I did try to make it work for a few months. She was really in love with me again and really wanted to be with me forever. Believe it or not it was when she told me that she lied about cheating on me, and admitting that she had always loved me that I lost the plot.
She let me believe something that tortured me for 3 years and changed me as person for a convenient lie. In her mind she never cheated and I should have felt good about that. In my mind she knew she loved me and that I loved her with all my soul, yet still gave herself to other men, which was even worse. She had even lost her best friend for revealing something very sensitive she was told in confidence, and still had no idea why their friendship dissolved.
The more I thought about her actions, the more disgusted I felt with her disloyalty,ingratitude and dishonesty.I truly loved her, but I could no longer ignore the truth after seeing who she really was. I could see myself in the future, living her father's life in the likelihood that she divorced me , or worse dying by each others side knowing I had given my entire pathetic life to someone who saw me as a second option. One night, consumed with rage and high on speed, I told her how I felt in a very ugly mean way, and that was the last time I ever heard from her.