Would you be ok with your SO going for coffee with a member of the opposite sex? pt2

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  1. Fat Abbot

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    Figured this discussion was worth continuing. Decided to remove the word allow from the title.

    I for one wouldn't be ok with it.
     
  2. thatone**

    thatone** Banned Banned

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    I dont even let my girl own a pair of shoes. if I ever her catch her looking at another man...
     
  3. Fat Abbot

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    Sock Puppet So it goes. Banned

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    fantastic thread.
     
  5. Sock Puppet

    Sock Puppet So it goes. Banned

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    well sir, i couldn't prove it wrong. it would appear that it does correlate.
     
  6. Shawn91111

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    Close male friends, sure, of course and she has plenty of times before. Just as I have with 2 of my close female friends. But if we are talking a guy she just met out on a date, then obviously not
     
  7. heavyarms21

    heavyarms21 Ryozanpaku Belt

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    Yeah , mine does it , and I go to lunch with female friends as well , doesn't mean shit
     
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    until...............
     
  9. heavyarms21

    heavyarms21 Ryozanpaku Belt

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    God forbid , but she knows I own a lot of guns :icon_twis
     
  10. Damien Karras

    Damien Karras Mirabile dichtu, don't you agree?

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    honest to God, I hope one day that swinging becomes accepted in society. I've never thought about doing it due to societal constraints, but logic points to it being a solution to many problems in a relationship. You can feel sexual attraction to many people, but only love one...right? So... why not?
     
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    Sock Puppet So it goes. Banned

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    yes
     
  12. ShoelessRye

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    Long time friends - no problem.

    New guy on the scene - yeah, it would be a problem.
     
  13. Fat Abbot

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    Since this is an mma forum maybe we should start being a bit more cool with fighters using trt. Maybe they started using it because they don't want to be ok with their women dating other men?
     
  14. Fat Abbot

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    Long time friend=Just another dude (patiently) waiting to burgle.
     
  15. Merlotte's

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    Was too sick to go on vacation to Hawaii a few years back so I sent my girlfriend there with another guy. I wanted her to have company and I'm not insecure.
     
  16. Fat Abbot

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    Indeed in the eyes of the swinger any man who isn't ok with their SO participating in gang bangs would be "insecure."
     
  17. Youthanized

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    So many butt hurt people over the word allow. I know it probably wasn't the best choice of words but I couldn't fit tolerate in the title and didn't want to use SO.

    I for one don't have a problem with it either way. I was with my SO at a restaurant and we could hear the table next to us arguing about it. I literally made the thread while my gf was in the washroom while we were at the restaurant.

    I'm very clear with my gf that I don't mind if she goes out for coffee with a guy, she doesn't though to avoid being hypercritical, she doesn't want me to go out and do the same thing and I know it's not me that she doesn't trust, it them.
     
  18. Breakage

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    I wonder how long it takes the guys in the circle jerk from last thread to start getting jealous of each other.
     
  19. Sock Puppet

    Sock Puppet So it goes. Banned

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    i wonder how long it's going to take until you find your gf/wife impaled on one of her platonic friends.



    i also wonder how long it will take you to make a quality and insightful post.
     
  20. Breakage

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    I'm sure your wife has smuggled plenty in over the years.

    Don't forget your sock!
     

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