it feel more badass to strike with someone. its way more risky then grappling. so you are a bit more "hard" then those who only grapple IMHO..But i like the effectiveness of grappling and wrestling.
agree,
striking does to an extent make you come off as harder, as chuck liddel said you can take to a choke or being hurt off a throw or armbar/leglock; but you gotta be a total b*tch to tap from strikes.
when you lose in grappling its cus you can't take anymore; your arm will be broken, you knee torn up, you lose conciousness or get something else dislocated or whatever. There is an intellectual connection to what is happening to you and why you won't go on.
but when you lose in striking, unless your straight koed, its often cus you DIDN'T WANT TO TAKE ANYMORE.
or to use brock as an example when you don't want to go on the ground, its often due to a lack of skill; but when you get it taken to you on the feet and your covering up, running away..its often considered a lack of heart. I.E. you get put on the ground against a superior grappler, not much you really can do; an people respect/acknowledge that. But when your put up against the wall or cage or whatever against superior striker you always have three choices, cover up and wait for them to stop it, quit or FIGHT back. IF you do anything except the last one, then your gonna catch some hell from coaches...training partners..observers and opponents.
noone cares if your scared to get tapped; everyone pays attention if your scared to get hit, sorry its a fact.
noone laughed at brock getting subbed and tapping quickly to a bjj blkblt; everyone mocked brock for not once but twice, running flinching and turning away from two below average strikers who hadn't even really hurt him when he retreated.
an my final point when i tell people i grapple, they respect it; but noone considers it tough or considers me tough for doing it. When i tell people i used to train boxing and sparred fighters or currently do muay thai and sparred w/very skilled people, everyone is like i didn't know you were that tough man; that shit is brutal and you do it.