So this girl is young, like 20, and she's got a semi cute face but she's pretty chubby. I was talking to her and she mentioned that she turned down a date from this guy because she wants someone much hotter. Now I've seen the guy that she turned down, and he's on her level if not above. So I was curious to hear what league she thought she was in. I asked her what made her think that she could get such a hot guy? And she said, "well i did it before" So I probed a bit there, and basically they're was a really hot guy she met in college. They had sex late one night, then a few sporadic times after that. Always late at night. And she was annoyed that they never even had a break up conversation. One day he was just dating someone else and then he graduated and moved away. I just remember feeling so sorry for this girl. In her head she thought she had a legit relationship with this guy, when in reality he just used her as his booty call. And the fact that he only did it a few times tells me that she was his absolute last resort. When all his other girls were busy, he knows at 3am he can always bust a nut in this fatty. I didn't have the heart to tell her the truth. She would just argue with me anyway. She's going to have to figure out that shit on her own. Have you ever had a situation where you didn't have the heart to tell someone the truth?