Before we get started, I talked to older folks who were lonely in the 80s or 90s and they coped with it by learning unique skills like entertainment hypnosis or engaged in technology or trying to invent things or computer coding. But now, todays incel seem very angry and violent. Don't get me wrong, socially awkward human beings have always existed since its an aspect of human nature. But with the likes of Elliot Rodger and the Toronto van attacker, it seems like many are choosing violence as an avenue and I don't know why? Just to clarify, Incel is " involuntary celibate" people that are lacking in social skills or unable to find female companionship.