Really, the question comes down to this: Would Jesus condemn someone for being gay? It's not a simple answer, because Jesus really didn't talk about that particular issue.
But if the answer is no, then condemning homosexuals is not an authentic part of the Christian lifestyle.
Sure. Like I said earlier, some people are just born as gentle souls and they naturally do good in the world.
But I personally think it can be good to have a code, if you will, an actual documented system of moral living that can keep a person on track. Because people making up their own rules as they go has its downside.
I have always envied the knights of the middle ages because they had the romantic code of chivalry to guide them.
Well this comes down to how the Bible should be interpreted. Was the story of Adam and Eve, for instance, ever meant to be interpreted literally or was it always meant to be viewed as an allegory? I think that, today, we often misinterpret the Bible because we don't understand the author's original intentions.