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I remember reading a book by Victoria Secunda titled "Women and Their Fathers" when I was engaged in a heated debate with a feminazi I dated at the time, wherein the author, a self-described feminist, examines how women base their romantic ideal on their father figure (a highly recommended reading on women's psychology and the popular phrase of "daddy issues.") Much of feminism is premised on a rejection of the traditional family, and gender roles, and ipso facto a rejection of the father. I do agree with Dr. Tony Evans' speech that the problem is from feminized men (which has nothing to do with sexual preference).
In the end, men are better off marrying women from traditional families (religious or not), wherein the father figure was dominant and present. Women who come from divorced homes or absent fathers should be avoided, as dysfunctional relationships have become an accepted and ingrained thing in the mind of that child since they were young and impressionable and statistics indicate they will most likely have a divorce themselves. Most feminist women are aggressive and vociferous and unreasonable. They like to be "independent," and not rely on a man. Unfortunately, since the divorce rate post-counter culture, many men have been raised by single mothers and have been imbued with this femininity, are passive and spineless.
Even when we look at cultural artifacts such as film - one can clearly see that male characters and actors in older movies had more masculinity, gravitas and confidence and women had far more grace and femininity to their style and manner than women these days. There is a certain cultural vulgarity that has permeated into the unconscious psyche of womanhood, and which has conversely emasculated the male. Choose wisely boys because it's "slim pickings."
Have to agree with a lot of this.