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Lol. And that's a good story. Your dad is a great man.
Thanks Rip. I feel like you'd probably get along with him. Still goes to mass on Sunday. Treats people well.
Lol. And that's a good story. Your dad is a great man.
I don't try make her feel special, but I try do things to deepen our connection.
Being a good listener is one of them. I try give her my complete attention and just totally be receptive to not only her words but also her energy, who she is, and just everything about her. I won't analyze what she is saying or even look for replys. Its all about listening and being as receptive as possible in every way. I don't do this all the time as its damn hard but sometimes I'm able to pull it off.
I'll also occasionally try put myself aside and be of service like giving her a massage or footrub or taking her for a drive to a place I know she wants to go and doing the things she wants to do even though I have no interest in those things. The key is being patient, relaxed, quiet, and of service with zero self interest. Ive noticed that if I do this when I'm gassed or super tired and stay open to her, an energy burst that includes a whole new level of connection, sensitivity, and understanding opens up between us.
Being a good listener is one of them. I try give her my complete attention and just totally be receptive to not only her words but also her energy, who she is, and just everything about her. I won't analyze what she is saying or even look for replys. Its all about listening and being as receptive as possible in every way. I don't do this all the time as its damn hard but sometimes I'm able to pull it off.
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Lol, they had their share of fights, stuff wasn't always great. But he definitely did that stuff, swear to god.
He is an old school kinda guy, big dude, he was raised on a farm in the late 40's and 50's then became an electrician. We lived in a lower, working class house, 1 floor and a little basement, no garage, that kinda place. He always listens to Conway Twitty and Patsy Cline and old school country, knows a lot about buying good food and cooking and just loved\loves the shit out of my mum. She's so mean to him sometimes I wonder if she deserves it. He's legit my hero. She's good to him lately though.
Suspicions confirmed lol
But thats cool tho...sounds like a swell guy
Treat her like she's special? A man's wife is special. Treat her accordingly.
That being said, every female I've ever been kind to lost interest because of it. Lol. Go figure.
Same here. Most guys I've ever known that were good with women basically said you have to balance being nice with being aloof or kind of a dick. Or else they will value you less if you value them too much.
Oh I didn't know we were doing mind games here. I thought we were having a relationship like grown adults.
I don't try make her feel special, but I try do things to deepen our connection.
Being a good listener is one of them. The key is being patient, relaxed, quiet, and of service with zero self interest. Ive noticed that if I do this when I'm gassed or super tired and stay open to her, an energy burst that includes a whole new level of connection, sensitivity, and understanding opens up between us.
everyday I tell my wife how lucky she is to have me. I place my food order before I got to work. and when I get home it betta be hot, and it betta be good.
I'm awesome with women when I'm gaming them. Not so much when I'm genuine and treat them like humans worthy of respect.
It bothers me that I have to throw up a front when I would rather be caring and kind, but that's just the way it is. Being 'that dude' brings the bitches in.
It's definitely fucking tiring though. I keep telling myself I'll run into a female who is above the bullshit. But, so far, no such luck...