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And its becoming increasingly difficult to be responsible for one's own privacy.
Again, I'm not saying we shouldn't judge Hogan because that is fine but even here you are agreeing that what happened to him was wrong. That's what I've been saying, its wrong and this sort of thing is only going to become more common as cameras get smaller and easier to conceal and information harder to conceal and its troubling
I disagree with this. It's no more difficult now that it ever was. You give up privacy when you enter someone else's space of control. When you leave your home, you give up privacy. Hogan had no expectation of privacy in someone else's home.
This is part of where I think people have adopted an unrealistic expectation of privacy. Once you engage people, privacy goes out of the window. This is because those people are not obligated to protect your privacy. It's all fair game...and always has been.
I think the divergence was a good thing. Its fine to judge others but having a certain expectation of privacy allows people to be more honest with those close to them instead of having their every action, intimate or not, open to public policing.
As above, there's no privacy expectation once you, or your communication, leaves your house. I've yet to see someone judged for opinions they kept in their home and to themselves. Once you communicate something - it ceases to be private.
No I don't see anything wrong with that, we already use discretion with how much of ourselves we reveal to people and how we act with certain people. You will act one way with your spouse and another with your client. Now, the way you act with your spouse or best friend in your most intimate moments can be known to your clients and it might be taken out of context.
Yes, but if my spouse tells my client something I've shared with her, I accepted that risk by sharing it with her in the first place. It's actually a real possibility because I'm friends with many of my clients. So, I never say anything about my clients to my wife that she might inadvertently repeat. And while we might reveal different aspects of ourselves to different people, if you hold opinions that will offend some of the people you know then you know that if they learn those opinions, they will judge you negatively. You have to accept that. If you don't like red haired people but you keep hanging out with them then you're fine with what happens if they find out that you don't really like them.
Sure we don't always get to put our best version forward but now our worst versions can be immortalized and open to judgement indefinitely regardless of how harmless that worst version is.
If the worst version is harmless then there's no harm done, is there? If people want to reap the benefits of their best version then they have to accept the consequences of their worst version. What is the argument that we can immortalize our best selves but no one should judge our worst?
Sure they can respond but I think there's a line that gets crossed. I'm the first person to say that a certain level of internet harassment isn't a big deal. Calling someone a **** on twitter is not a big deal but revealing their personal information or intimate moments is and that is a troubling trend.
Again, not to be cavalier, then avoid these circumstances. Don't post on forums. Don't have social media pages. Don't say dumb things in other people's houses. Simply be more responsible with how you conduct yourself.
People want carte blanche to act up in the public space (and, yes, your neighbor's house is a public space as far as you're concerned. So is a telephone conversation - there is no legal expectation of privacy. That conversation can be repeated as often as the other person chooses and there's no legal recourse, only the recording is illegal, not the repetition if done by word of mouth.) but then want to assert privacy when people disagree with what they've put out there.