I agree completely, though I'm coming from the liberal side. My question would be if you'd be happy having a string of Barry Goldwaters, e.g. ideological purists who lose terribly because not that much of the country really agrees with them.
The goal shouldn't be to win every single election, which is impossible to do anyway, even when you have no other aim but to win the election.
If your goals for the country can't be implemented now, you should at least try to change the public discourse by airing them out and making the public aware of them.
I admire the gay marriage advocates in one way. They didn't allow the decades-long high unpopularity of their issue to stop them from pushing it. They kept pushing, using the Democratic Party when they could and criticizing it when it was no longer useful.
The right should learn a lesson from their success. What seems impossible today is often very possible tomorrow.
You sound very committed to your views, which is great, but I'm sure you recognize that a majority of Americans don't agree with you and as such your preferred candidates are not going to win national elections.
But as I pointed out with gay marriage, it doesn't really matter.
Immigration restriction, for example, is now more popular with the American people than gay marriage was less than ten years ago. So we should give up on it? That makes absolutely no sense.
So is it better to have an extremist who goes down in flames, or elect a moderate who will, at least (from your point of view) not be as bad as a Democratic president?
But he (or she) will be bad. In some ways, he will be worse. Because he forecloses criticism of positions the party would typically criticize were one of their own not in office. He also forces you to defend bad positions on the less-bad reasoning.
For example, the GOP didn't criticize Bush's big government spending just because he was a Republican. Whereas a Democratic president would have come in for heavy criticism from the GOP on spending, and we would have likely ended up with less spending.
So if you care about spending, what was better?
Another dirty little secret is that Republicans would've been going apeshit if Al Gore had done what George W. Bush did in Iraq. They would've been going absolutely batshit crazy. Nation building ! No belief in victory ! Quagmire ! But instead, with Bush in office, they defended the indefensible. How was that ultimately good for the party?
I much prefer Bernie Sanders to Hillary Clinton, but I don't think Bernie can win the general and assuming Hillary gets the nomination I'll support her mostly because as unsavory as the Clintons can be she's still better than any GOP nominee. Politics 99% of the time is the art of the possible. It's always interesting to me when people who supposedly draw their political philosophy from people like Edmund Burke advocate for radical social change...it's really not conservative at all in the classical sense of the word.
Well, that kind of approach to politics - the "less bad" approach - will eventually bite you and the party in the ass. Just as it did us Republicans.
Why say that you would rather support someone who puts us in five feet of shit rather than ten feet of shit when ultimately you will still get blamed for putting the country in shit? And what your political opponents would have done in office remains speculative to most in the public?