Unfortunately those people for me are my mom and my aunt. My family has always been conservative, so it's not that. But they are the 2 who went all in and over the top with Trump.
My aunt has always been outspoken but at least used to be respectful. The last couple years I've lost all respect for her though as she's gotten more racist and hateful as a backlash to BLM and such. Recently her and my uncle asked my brother and I, 2 of the only college educated members of the family, with legit concern if we felt like college tried to brainwash us.
My mom was always pretty Apolitical. She is not the brightest and is pretty gullible overall. She knew she liked GWB and she knew she didn't like Obama, but she couldn't tell you why other than fox News told her so. Before Trump the dumbest thing she did was refuse to sign up for Obama care because she heard it was bad. She is dirt poor and had recently quit her job of 20 years.... So that was bad.
But otherwise she was usually pretty reasonable until the last couple years when she discovered YouTube. She is a typical boomer believing everything she sees on there instantly with no regard for sources or facts. So she has spent the last couple years sharing a combination of religious nutjob shit and right wing conspiracies. I did not engage very much at all, until covid started and she started down the anti fauci conspiracy rabbit hole. She is a nurse and I flat out told her it was ridiculous to believe a con man and liar with an election coming up over all relevant health experts. She got pissed but it didn't escalate too much.
Earlier today she started with the election conspiracy vids. My brother responded reasonably with facts and a suggestion that maybe she should consider the source of these claims. She COMPLETELY freaked the fuck out. Texts telling him to literally fuck off and not talk to her for the holidays. I am staying out of it, but won't be speaking to her until she apologizes for this meltdown and choosing Donald Trump over her own son. The worst part? She was diagnosed with breast cancer last week.
I'm sorry for your mother having cancer and hope she gets well.
That aside, i absolutely know what you're talking about in regards to people in one's family sharing these things.
In my case, it's mostly my father's cousin.
She shares several stupid things a day, with topics ranging from Qanon, Covid-19 being a flu, the US elections being rigged, lockdowns being illegal, out chancellor (Angela Merkel) having to go into imprisonment on remand (fucking lol) amongst other things - oh and she's an anti-vaxxer.
Many of the posts she shares have grammar mistakes, lots of things written in CAPS LOCK and/or pictures with a resolution that shouldn't be allowed anymore.
Oh and of course she also posts these pictures with texts about the world being ignorant about everything and people being sheep etc.
(As you know though, these are the same people that immediately believe any conspiracy about any politician or person they don't like and never question it.)
It's fucking annoying, honestly, it's the dunning kruger-effect in fully display.
>"hahaha, you are so stupid to believe the mainstream media!"
>believes any conspiracy made by some random youtuber upon first hearing without fact-checking it