First, the unifying denominator there went totally over your head.
Second, wow, do you hear yourself? There is a lot to unpack here with so little written. "But STPeach's husband is incel tier". Is that how you think? Maybe you need to re-evaluate your warped perception of what an "incel tier" is because clearly it isn't all about looks-- that dude is banging one of the hottest women alive, and she apparently loves him.
IMO, this gets to the heart of the "incel" problem because, frankly,
you're the one who sounds like an incel to me. Grown-up males who have battle scars in the game don't wince at the truth, and how harsh the mating game is, but it can't be reduced to this. Yes, looks matter, but they aren't everything, and more importantly, they aren't everything to
everyone. There is a difference between cultivating qualities that will enable you to have the most success with the greatest volume of the most physically desirable women on a casual basis, and having success with just one girl who isn't necessarily looking for a roll in the hay; some of the latter happen to be hot as fuck.
It's hard to be a poonslaying playboy. It's very demanding to go full GQ: looks, style, charm/charisma, intelligence, friends, excitement, money, (the ability to project) a sense of selflessness where a woman believes you could fall in love with her, and ultimately the inertia of achieving the status of someone who is desired by many because this makes more women covet you by sheer virtue of the fact that
other women want you, so they perceive this will reflect well on their own value. We all have self-esteem issues. So there's a lot of boxes to fill. But men aren't doomed to be an incel just because they aren't Don Juan. Don't be a douchebag, and don't get your head down. You can't control everything, but there is more power in what we control than most of us estimate, I'd wager.
To illustrate this let's visit that term. "Incel" became popularized after these two scumbags went on a killing spree. The second left a video explaining his reason. He felt entitled to great success with women despite that he didn't enjoy it:
Alek Minassian
Elliot Rodger
Notice something? These guys aren't ugly. They aren't hideous creatures. Elliott came from privilege. He had nice things, nice clothes, went to a nice school-- spoke with educated diction. He had youth on his side. His problem wasn't that he didn't conform to this strange social perception of what a ladykiller is supposed to be, and it wasn't that girls were sluts who didn't espy his true value. Clearly they
accurately gauged his true value in spite of what he had going for him. No, his problem was that he was a monstrous narcissist who felt the world should adapt to him rather than him adapting to the world. Fucking moron. Thinking about him reminds me of a famous quote by Neil Degrasse Tyson.
In other words, if you aren't killing it with the ladies, when you think you
should be killing it with the ladies, well, the ladies are under no obligation to make sense of that for you. It's your burden to figure out why they aren't responding to you, and then modify your behavior to achieve better success. Man meet universe.
Finally, I also object to the implication that Amouranth's viewers enjoy some justified outrage in being "misled" by her. These jackasses aren't giving their money to charity. They're giving it to a girl who streams softcore T&A. Do you think they "donate" to her nobly out of the goodness of their hearts? You think those donations are rooted in some concern for her biography? Of course not. What this deduces for us is that these guys aren't contributing money without a sense of purchase, and yet they never bothered to negotiate the terms of what they are purchasing. Ergo, these guys are the dumbest "tricks" in the history of tricks. They honestly believe they can cultivate a relationship with a girl over a webcam stream and on message boards? Then that mod is outraged when he realizes he was never anything but a source of income to her? All this belies is what I have just deduced; that he
expected something in return for his "donations".
Trick meet universe.